TheJay2000 Posted July 1, 2015 Share Posted July 1, 2015 (edited) Hi I'm new to writing on forums, but I could really do with some help. For the last month I've been seeing a girl that works at the same place as me (retail shop floor) but we work different days. We have kissed and cuddled at mine a few times but overall we are taking it slow, since her last relationship of 3 years (ended 2 months ago) ended badly, with her bf making her really depressed, and now she is lacking confidence when spending time with guys she hardly knows. She also suffers from anxiety. During the third week I did cause her to say "you are paranoid about me" (this was because she wasn't talking much and I was worried ahe was going off me), but we spoke about why she wasn't talking much, her brother was really ill and she was worried. Since then she hasn't made as much time to come see me but we still text/call like normal. And earlier today one of my closest friends who I've known for 17 years (amy, girlfriend of my closest mate) came round as she needed someone to talk to because of family stuff she was going through. My fb was logged on my pc so amy messaged the girl I'm seeing"what the deal was with you two?". I quickly realised what was happening and apologized to beth (name of girl Im seeing) but she then started asking all these questions about who this amy girl is, why is she over mine, and why I invited her to come over when amy was already over mine (I asked beth to come over when she finished work which I thought was 8pm, meaning that she could spend some time with me as amy would leave by 5, but she had to go home and babysit her little brother, which isn't an excuse as her brothers not been that well this week). Basically what I'm asking is, from reading what I've said, do think Beth is still interested in me, or has she gone off me? If I feel I need to then I will discuss it with her but at the moment I'm just curious to see what everyone here thinks of it all . Edited July 1, 2015 by TheJay2000 Link to post Share on other sites
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