awooga Posted July 1, 2015 Posted July 1, 2015 I cannot figure out the girl I like at the moment. We have formed a close friendship and when we are with each other we get on really great and she is just one of those people I click with and that isn't in question, what is in question though is her attitude to me when we don't see each other face to face. I'm not expecting text message marathons or constant contact with her but it seems like when we don't see each other I maybe get 1 message in two/three days compared to say 20 a day when we see each other. So I don't constantly text or message her I only reply when she does but why talk so much on messages when we see each other and then hardly anything the days we don't? But the big one though that I can't really figure out is, a few times she has suggested we do something over the weekend or in the evenings and lets make this clear SHE SUGGESTS IT! and so, like most people would assume I thought this is her way of saying ask me to go? but when I try to make arrangements she acts flaky and just says things like ''I'm not sure what I'm doing yet'' and it just get's left at that so no meeting takes place. Once I can think okay she was busy, twice at a push but for this to now happen 4,5 times in the last 2 months I'm starting to just feel like it's not worth my effort. I'm confused, why would she go out of her way and lead me into thinking she wants to go on these dates even if we were just going as friends, when it seems like she actually has no intention of going, and her responses make it sound like it was all my idea!, when it's her saying we should go. Any Thoughts??
fred123 Posted July 1, 2015 Posted July 1, 2015 sometimes women will do things just to be polite and to pity you. it happens I'm sorry. they aren't interested in you but just pity you
aloneinaz Posted July 1, 2015 Posted July 1, 2015 You're her plan b or even c. She contacts you when she has nothing better to do. You're her fall back plan when her 1st priority falls through. Don't be her door mat. I'd go radio silent on this one and find someone who wants to be YOUR plan A. Clearly she doesn't.
changeofseasons Posted July 1, 2015 Posted July 1, 2015 I agree, it sounds like your her fallback guy. Time to move on and find something better, dont short change yourself.
Gary S Posted July 1, 2015 Posted July 1, 2015 Women who like you and are sane make solid dates and don't give you the runaround - friends or otherwise. Start talking to other girls and find one who really likes you.
mightycpa Posted July 1, 2015 Posted July 1, 2015 Yeah, she likes you, but she's dating other people too... or, she's married. you never know. have you banged her yet? if not, why not? Food for thought in that question. 1
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