contel3 Posted June 30, 2015 Posted June 30, 2015 so i met my ex at the station today. we talked a little bit. i feel pretty good on my own and i don't even care when i get "breadcrumbs" but seeing him in person really gets to me. i feel like the roof is collapsing over my head, get all panicky and shaky. he hurt me pretty bad so somehow i'm always scared he's going to say something just to hurt me. even though he's been apologising and is clearly feeling guilty about his actions. i was really surprised to see he was also shaking (even worse than me actually) and looking wary. he left me and started a new relationship straight after so i always assumed he doesn't give a s*** about me. after we broke up he didn't even acknowledge we had been in a relationship anymore and started acting like we're just some long time buddies. i hate it. i know i will still bump into him since we live in a very small town. i dont want to create a fuss and would actually like to end on good terms but after the way he acted it's just so hard to stay civil around him! I'm fine as long as its texts but having him around makes me feel soooooo bad I'm still not completely over him and somehow I wish i meant something to him....i can't get over the fact it took him less than a week to move on and forget me. the worst is he ACTS like he still cares about me, talking to my friends he barely knew, texting me every day, going out of his way to do me favours but at the same time he SAYS really hurtful stuff and doesn't miss an opportunity to tell me how he got over me so fast. i never EVER begged him back so I don't see why he should constantly remind me of this. its also weird he stays in touch at all since he has a gf and has made it perfectly clear hes not interested in sex. this situation is messing with my head! planning to go no contact now. already deleted his number.
ravfour4 Posted June 30, 2015 Posted June 30, 2015 If someone continually tells you they're over you and texts you often - they're not over you. Sounds like he's a mess right now, but for some reason he's sure he no longer wants a relationship with you. Maybe it's a problem on his end. Maybe it's some deep incompatibility between you two. You'll probably never know - just focus on becoming the best you can be, if he doesn't want it, someone else better will.
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