mr_dave Posted June 30, 2015 Posted June 30, 2015 So it's my last night here in Italy on holiday, and I'm staying in a tiny B&B. The proprietor just so happens to be the girl of my dreams, she's the same age (she mentioned it seeing my passport), long flowing dark hair, a beautiful smile, friendly, not married, Italian....I could go on all day. I melted when I arrived and we were talking. I would really like to chat with her over dinner/ a drink tonight, and find out a bit about life here, as I've long since thought about moving to Italy. Should I do it? If she says no, the awkwardness factor will be huge, but I leave tomorrow... It's almost 4 pm here...
elaine567 Posted June 30, 2015 Posted June 30, 2015 So it's my last night here in Italy on holiday, and I'm staying in a tiny B&B. The proprietor just so happens to be the girl of my dreams, she's the same age (she mentioned it seeing my passport), long flowing dark hair, a beautiful smile, friendly, not married, Italian....I could go on all day. I melted when I arrived and we were talking. I would really like to chat with her over dinner/ a drink tonight, and find out a bit about life here, as I've long since thought about moving to Italy. Should I do it? If she says no, the awkwardness factor will be huge, but I leave tomorrow... It's almost 4 pm here... Leaving things to the last minute... BUT Tell her you are thinking of moving to Italy and would like to discuss it with her over a drink or a bite to eat. YOU can then take it from there depending on how it goes. If you just ask for a date she may refuse, simply because you are leaving tomorrow and she doesn't want to be a ONS. 1
Author mr_dave Posted June 30, 2015 Author Posted June 30, 2015 Leaving things to the last minute... BUT Tell her you are thinking of moving to Italy and would like to discuss it with her over a drink or a bite to eat. YOU can then take it from there depending on how it goes. If you just ask for a date she may refuse, simply because you are leaving tomorrow and she doesn't want to be a ONS. I've only just arrived here an hour ago! Honestly, a ONS is not my intention at all, I don't do that. I feel like Michael in the Godfather, when he sees Apollonia for the first time, Sicilians call it the thunderbolt. I'm on the other side of Sicily though, haha Joking aside, an evening talking with a beautiful Sicilian woman would be the perfect end to my trip. 1
elaine567 Posted June 30, 2015 Posted June 30, 2015 I've only just arrived here an hour ago! Honestly, a ONS is not my intention at all, I don't do that. I feel like Michael in the Godfather, when he sees Apollonia for the first time, Sicilians call it the thunderbolt. I'm on the other side of Sicily though, haha Joking aside, an evening talking with a beautiful Sicilian woman would be the perfect end to my trip. Sorry, I misunderstood, I thought you had been there for a whole week and had only now decided to ask her out. I wasn't implying that all you wanted was a ONS, only that she may see it in that way, if you ask her for a formal date and are leaving tomorrow. Good luck though, it does sound like the perfect ending. 1
smackie9 Posted June 30, 2015 Posted June 30, 2015 Ask her you fool. So what if she says no, there are plenty of other hot women to meet at some café. 3
Author mr_dave Posted June 30, 2015 Author Posted June 30, 2015 (edited) Thanks Elaine! She has unfortunately left the building, I'm not sure whether to go out myself or loaf around here.. Haha, this reminds me of the time I was a fifteen year old boy on holiday, smitten with a blonde German girl. I waited on a sofa for an hour, reading a book and waiting for her to walk by after dinner so I could carry on our conversation. Edited June 30, 2015 by mr_dave
Author mr_dave Posted June 30, 2015 Author Posted June 30, 2015 (edited) Seems like she won't be back tonight, last check in time has been and gone. She said to ask her or email her if I need anything, but asking her out by email.. there's no way that would work... Edited June 30, 2015 by mr_dave
Author mr_dave Posted June 30, 2015 Author Posted June 30, 2015 She came back and I asked if she had plans for the evening. She said she couldn't, she was working and was going home for dinner with her boyfriend and dog. We chatted for a good while, during which time she advised me not to move here, although she gave me her contact details and offered to help me if I wanted. She was so warm and helpful. I grew more and more captivated by her with every passing second, her beautiful eyes, her giggle as she stumbled along in the most perfect broken English... I feel so deflated.. that's as close as I'll ever get to love at first sight..
smackie9 Posted June 30, 2015 Posted June 30, 2015 She came back and I asked if she had plans for the evening. She said she couldn't, she was working and was going home for dinner with her boyfriend and dog. We chatted for a good while, during which time she advised me not to move here, although she gave me her contact details and offered to help me if I wanted. She was so warm and helpful. I grew more and more captivated by her with every passing second, her beautiful eyes, her giggle as she stumbled along in the most perfect broken English... I feel so deflated.. that's as close as I'll ever get to love at first sight.. Beautiful and hot = will have BF. This why I always say ask before you invest. Dude go out exploring in the city....plenty of people out on the street, eating, drinking, having a good time.....get yourself out there. And hey, maybe she has cute GFs she can introduce you to. 1
alphamale Posted June 30, 2015 Posted June 30, 2015 if she says no you'll be ending your vacation on a sour note. not a good idea
elaine567 Posted June 30, 2015 Posted June 30, 2015 if she says no you'll be ending your vacation on a sour note. not a good idea Read the thread.
jay1983 Posted June 30, 2015 Posted June 30, 2015 Ask her you fool. So what if she says no, there are plenty of other hot women to meet at some café. Reach through the computer and smack him 9 times. Lol 2
Author mr_dave Posted June 30, 2015 Author Posted June 30, 2015 Beautiful and hot = will have BF. This why I always say ask before you invest. Dude go out exploring in the city....plenty of people out on the street, eating, drinking, having a good time.....get yourself out there. And hey, maybe she has cute GFs she can introduce you to. Well I didn't really have much of a chance to decide whether to invest or not. I was smitten within a minute of being in her company! It's my last night here in Italy, but I'm in a pretty small town where not much goes on. When I next return to Italy, hopefully in a couple of months, I'll be a bit smoother conversationally and will hopefully get to talk to some nice local women. if she says no you'll be ending your vacation on a sour note. not a good idea Well she said no, but if I hadn't asked I would feel a lot worse. But yeah it has put a dampener on it! 1
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