Guitarisgood Posted June 29, 2015 Posted June 29, 2015 F*ck it, for once in my life I'm going to commit and take a punt. Excuse my language but I mean it this time that I'm not going to simply 'next' and move on to a new fish because I've hit a hurdle. I know what I am doing, I'm as privvy to the ins and outs of dating (as long as my emotions don't cloud my judgement or I think with my other head). But for once in my life, I know what I want and I am struggling to break down those walls. I mean every now and then she lets her guard down and the person underneath is perfection. So anyone who's dated someone shy thoughts? Any tips? Anything from where/ how to organise dates to how to talk to them that they open up will greatly be appreciated. I know chances are I may get my heart broken at the end of the day but it's time to roll up my sleeve and wear my heart where it should be rather than so guarded a PUA could not pry me open.
Satu Posted June 29, 2015 Posted June 29, 2015 Let her be exactly who she is. Thats all you need to do. 1
preraph Posted June 30, 2015 Posted June 30, 2015 I've never even met a shy girl once they were out of high school. Where do you find these shrinking violets?
ThisisIt606 Posted June 30, 2015 Posted June 30, 2015 shy in what way? does she not talk a lot on your dates? Ask her direct questions that require her to elabroate a bit more rather than short answers. If she likes figure skating for instance you could ask "how did you get into that?" "what do you love most about it?" Just give her space to feel comfortable with you and encourage anything she says that's funny, etc. THat would prob work for me.
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