sxbmb3388 Posted June 29, 2015 Posted June 29, 2015 i thought i might give you guys a bit of back story... i met this guy in a club, mid May, at the end of the night. we were both a little drunk, and we got to chatting. i told him my name, only my 1st name, and the guy finds my facebook and adds me, asks me out for dinner, and i was just thinking 'why not'? we went out for a meal. i liked the effort he wet to just to take me on that 1st date- he drove about an hour to come and pick me up, and had a great time. since then i've been on 2 more dates with this guy, and literally communicated every day since we met, but he's in the armed forces and sometimes has to go away. he's been away for the past 2 weeks, and obviously the conversation has dulled. on our first date we never even kissed or anything, we were just talking and found out we have a bunch of things in common. he would say the nicest things to me, however, i've been in a LTR of 7 years and just got out of that a year ago, and have no concept of dating, or even flirting. he is 2 years younger than me- i'm 24, he's 22, and conversation started up again this evening, he then stated he wanted to 'step it up a bit' and 'progress to the next level'. on our second date we did kiss, but that was literally it, and he's not exactly been so forward with me. to be honest, i'm just going with it, and not on the hunt for anything serious, but I am wondering what people might think about this guy. obviously i wont take your word for gospel, but it would be nice to hear opinions. hope that wasn't to rambled.
petsrule Posted June 29, 2015 Posted June 29, 2015 (edited) It sounds to me like he's interested in you Edited June 29, 2015 by petsrule typing round a cat
Author sxbmb3388 Posted June 29, 2015 Author Posted June 29, 2015 It sounds to me like he's interested in you to be fair, i've been a complete nun since last year, and haven't been with anyone intimately for about 7 months, and i guess getting back into that kind of terrifies me, but apparrently there are all these dumb rules to dating, and i don't want to look like a total newbie. also people are hard work, and since being single, or being happy in myself, i've honestly never been happier and haven't even thought about guys, which is why i think i've been so caught off guard with this one!
aloneinaz Posted June 29, 2015 Posted June 29, 2015 Don't over think it. Stay cool and relax. It's kind of odd for him to say those things and I'm not sure how to interpret them. Most guys don't need to say those things, they simply let the dating progress. He does sound interested though. Have fun, don't take this dating or this guy too seriously. Enjoy the fun of dating.
lovexocoach Posted June 29, 2015 Posted June 29, 2015 He's interested in you if he makes this sort of effort. Are you ready for a relationship?
Author sxbmb3388 Posted June 29, 2015 Author Posted June 29, 2015 He's interested in you if he makes this sort of effort. Are you ready for a relationship? to be honest, i've not really thought too deeply about a relationship- I've had the opportunity to date, and I know i could have entered into something with these guys, but just not gone for it. i really like being single, because i'm a very independent person, but then i enjoyed the companionship of a relationship, so at the minute maybe something in between might be best? i'm really not sure. although i believe i'm over my ex, part of me does feel like it might be too soon for myself, purely because I've spent all of my adult life, bar just under a year, in a relationship!
Author sxbmb3388 Posted June 29, 2015 Author Posted June 29, 2015 Don't over think it. Stay cool and relax. It's kind of odd for him to say those things and I'm not sure how to interpret them. Most guys don't need to say those things, they simply let the dating progress. He does sound interested though. Have fun, don't take this dating or this guy too seriously. Enjoy the fun of dating. yes i was having fun with it, but thought i had it down until he said this, because i like spontaneity and planning to reach new levels feels kind of a bit like pressure! i just thought this might be a bit of an alarm bell sitch, i don't want to be used or anything.
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