mortensorchid Posted June 29, 2015 Posted June 29, 2015 I was talking to someone recently who said that he finds a good means of meeting women is taking dancing classes. As in partner dancing. Of this I am kind of ... I don't know. I would imagine that this would at least encourage people to approach one another physically and to touch one another, even if it's something as sterile as box stepping in a circle. But still, it seems kind of ridiculous to me. I was wondering what others thought about this. Is this a means of meeting people? Not to date others but just in general? It's an excuse to mingle if nothing else. But I was a bit surprised by the people I'd met who have tried meeting people while dancing. And just for the record, I hate dancing. I have all the grace of an elephant with a tutu on. I picture it being like a junior high school dance where all the boys stand on one side, the girls on the other with their arms crossed, not speaking to one another, then about twenty minutes before it's all over people start dancing and then it's over with.
TheBathWater Posted June 30, 2015 Posted June 30, 2015 I took up salsa dancing years ago, and yes, dancing is an excellent way to meet new people. I made tons of new friends who were regulars like me, and we all networked, went out together, traveled together, etc... It really is a community and I highly recommend it for anyone looking to gain confidence and broaden their social circle. 1
mapofyourhead Posted June 30, 2015 Posted June 30, 2015 I did ballroom for a few years, and if this is what you're looking into, it's a great way to meet people (not necessarily those of the opposite sex). In classes, the men and women are separated since you're taught different footwork and steps, but then you partner up and dance. After that, you usually rotate to a new partner and dance/practice some more. If you stick with it, you'll start making friends with other regulars, attending dance parties, and becoming a part of the community. If anything, it's cool meeting new people and learn a bit more about dancing. It never hurts to try something new, and even if you're not so good at it, have a good attitude and it'll be fun!
Toodaloo Posted June 30, 2015 Posted June 30, 2015 And just for the record, I hate dancing. I have all the grace of an elephant with a tutu on. I picture it being like a junior high school dance where all the boys stand on one side, the girls on the other with their arms crossed, not speaking to one another, then about twenty minutes before it's all over people start dancing and then it's over with. Ha! The whole point of lessons is to learn! What about something more "male" oriented for you instead? Fencing, walking groups, athletics clubs...
Haydn Posted June 30, 2015 Posted June 30, 2015 Local pub darts team? I love a girl who knows what to do with a set of `Arrows` Plus knows her `flights` Actually `Tunainthebrine` said Salsa. I have quite a few friends who met boys and girls this way. Maybe chance your arm with that? 1
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