upsetnhurt Posted May 1, 2005 Posted May 1, 2005 I need some advice. My ex and I have had a few casual encounters over the last week (i.e. lunch, dinner, coffee) and it has been nothing short of fantastic. Come this Friday night, I got a unexpected call from her around 10:00 asking if I was busy and if I could be a friend and allow her to come over and crash. I am not suprised at all yet we wound up spending a fantastic weekend together out and about and I will admit that there intense intimacy between ourselves. I have a hard time keeping myself from showing her how I feel about her and I initiated the intimate moments which she certainly did not reject. My question, although I probably know the answer, is what expectations should I have, if any, of ever being with in the same capacity as I had while we were together.......or was this simply a moment of needing some physical interraction?
LucreziaBorgia Posted May 1, 2005 Posted May 1, 2005 .......or was this simply a moment of needing some physical interraction? Only time and a close watch of how her words and her actions match up will tell you that. If you want to see where its going, call her up, ask her out on a date and then discuss how you feel about getting back together with her over a romantic dinner. If she balks, backpedals or gives you the confused/space/time excuses, you'll have your answer and you'll know what to do from there.
whichwayisup Posted May 1, 2005 Posted May 1, 2005 Is this something you both want? To get back together? Or is this a case of not being able to move on, but it's for the best that you do? How long were you guys together before it ended? I need some more info here if I'm able to help ya out. COULD you see you both back together? If so, whatever the problems were/are, could they be worked out so you both were happier and have a better relationship?
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