danmillar Posted June 29, 2015 Posted June 29, 2015 So, I was out at the bar, and had an odd encounter. I was at the bar, ordered a drink, and was about to step away. A couple of girls are headed towards the open spot and one of them literally grabs me by the waist and THROWS/PUSHES me a few feet from the bar! She's very skinny, so her "throw" is more of a shove, but she did grab me by the waist with both hands and (attempt to) move me with considerable force. I didn't think much of it at the time, except to find it mildly amusing, but now thinking it: 'that was pretty darn rude!' Do 'different rules' apply for women getting physical with men? This was about 1030 in the evening, so quite early, and probably she wasn't drunk yet.
TaraMaiden2 Posted June 29, 2015 Posted June 29, 2015 Did you speak to her? Did she say anything to you? What followed?
Author danmillar Posted June 29, 2015 Author Posted June 29, 2015 No, she did not say anything, I did not say anything to her. I get a lot of women approaching me in all kinds of different ways, including forceful, deliberate shoves, shoulder bumps, and all kinds of sexually explicit behavior without any conversation. That's their first move. That's probably what she was doing. I'm just thinking women can get away with any kind of physical behavior in a bar/club setting: sexual, violent or both. 1
Woggle Posted June 29, 2015 Posted June 29, 2015 No this isn't okay to do to somebody you don't even know. 1
umirano Posted June 29, 2015 Posted June 29, 2015 This happens to me as well. A couple of times per year. Such a woman is extremely unattractive to me. No chance we'll ever be seeing each other. I think it's a sign of great desperation or a complete lack of manners, possibly combined with a huge ego. Screams low class all over. It's truly laughable how some women think that her openly promoted inclination to drink is attractive on any level. I don't mind a glass or two at all. But you're not cool because you think you can drink like a man.
loveweary11 Posted June 29, 2015 Posted June 29, 2015 I've seen this. One girl I was dating and at a festival with cleared a path to the front by poking and pushing people lightly. I was surprised everyone took it. At first, they would turn around mad, but then they'd see she's hot and smile and let her through. I was shocked, but held her hand and follwed. When I lead through the crowds, Iook for tiny openings and squeak by. Admittedly her way is faster. And yes... i think females can get away with basically anything in those environments. 1
cessna Posted June 29, 2015 Posted June 29, 2015 (edited) Blame the feminists. Honestly. New wave feminists would applaud that girl for standing up to a potential rapist and misogynist. Edited June 29, 2015 by cessna 1
stillafool Posted June 29, 2015 Posted June 29, 2015 Wow! Those girls certainly have masculine energy. Hope they don't mind when someone pushes them back.
Lansing Posted June 29, 2015 Posted June 29, 2015 I've seen this. One girl I was dating and at a festival with cleared a path to the front by poking and pushing people lightly. Ha, yeah, I see this all of the time. I was at a concert the other night and this girl grabbed my friends crotch... he stepped back and gave her room because she seemed a bit crazy.
Radu Posted June 29, 2015 Posted June 29, 2015 Wow! Those girls certainly have masculine energy. Hope they don't mind when someone pushes them back. They'll scream bloody murder when that happens.
guest569 Posted June 29, 2015 Posted June 29, 2015 Blame the feminists. Honestly. New wave feminists would applaud that girl for standing up to a potential rapist and misogynist. Oh dear. Get a clue. Of course its not ok what she did.
cessna Posted June 29, 2015 Posted June 29, 2015 Oh dear. Get a clue. Of course its not ok what she did. Yeah, we all know that. The feminazi would disagree.
Gary S Posted June 29, 2015 Posted June 29, 2015 We call that woman an idiot. This is just another case of the "men bad, women good" attitude we have today. 1
Keenly Posted June 29, 2015 Posted June 29, 2015 Personal space is a big deal to me. Violate it without established trust and I'll probably never look at that woman the same way again. I don't think people like to be touched by complete strangers.
Author danmillar Posted June 29, 2015 Author Posted June 29, 2015 Well, then I better keep some stories from that night or from other nights to myself.
Author danmillar Posted June 29, 2015 Author Posted June 29, 2015 Well, I realize in retrospect it was her awkward way of approaching me, wanting me to get something going. I've called these girls out in the past and they enjoy being called out because this is exactly what they want. I didn't feel like acting douchey to get the girl this time.
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