Roxxiedott Posted June 29, 2015 Posted June 29, 2015 (edited) Ok, so basically I've known this guy since the 10th grade. We started officially dating 6 months ago. Everything had been going fine and we would argue here and there but not too much. Anyway, so it started about a week ago when he was with his ex girlfriend (she has a boyfriend that she's in love with and she's someone he went with when he was like in middle school lol) and her family and during that moment he ended up not texting me for over 5 hours. That's unusual for him and when he finally did text back he said it was because he was busy with his ex's cousin's baby. So, I was whatever about it, but still mad not because he was busy with the baby but what about when he was done dealing with the baby. He told me he was busy with her family as well. So he ended up getting mad because I felt some type of way about it, and decided it'd be ok to ignore me. I texted him and told him that wasn't cool for him to do just because I was mad and he apologized to me for it. Everything seemed fine. The next day though, his homeboy came back in town from school and he took hours to text back again. He was with his homeboy and a female friend drinking. I got mad all over again because he posted a pic on his Instagram of his penis print. He's never done anything like that in our relationship. So I confronted that situation as well. But then that whole week it seemed he continued to reply to me slow while he was out. Now, this is unusual because he doesn't take over 5 hours to reply to me and he's never did since I've known him up until last week. Once I talked to him I told him I felt something was wrong but he never confirmed or denied that but also told me he doesn't want to talk to me everyday. So towards the end of this week he basically broke up with me, telling me he feels that if he keeps this relationship going he'd lose all interest. So I told him ok and bye and he was like oh so you don't want to talk to me, yet when I continued to get his side of the situation he told me he also doesn't want to deal with me right now and he enjoys talking to me but only once in a while. He told me he loves me and that I'm the greatest girl a guy could have. Why this is interesting is because before things started randomly falling off, everything seemed fine. He texted me everyday, he didn't take hours to reply to me, he even mentioned if we were to separate we'd talk everyday like we had been doing, hang out like we have been, and stay cool. And I asked why this was mentioned and he said we never know what'll happen and he just wanted me to know but that we're solid. Before he broke up with me he said he just wanted space and I needed to know if he was breaking up with me completely and he had said he wasn't sure because I'm really a great person but he doesn't know and that he thinks he's just over it for the moment. So after he decided to break up with me and he had tweeted that same night "listening to these nurses failed relationships makes me ponder about my future (he works in the hospital)" and he ended up texting me saying we can try this again but I asked if he was sure and he just never texted me back. So what I don't understand is how is it that everything was going good and all of a sudden it came to this? And if he doesn't want to be with me anymore why would he text me saying we can try again just to not reply to me? Edited June 29, 2015 by Roxxiedott
mightycpa Posted June 29, 2015 Posted June 29, 2015 Awww... You're both trapped in this nightmare of not really liking each other all that much, but neither of you have quite figured it out yet. You seem to both be in a race to the finish line, and he's winning at the moment. You get mad at him for spending time how he likes. he's sick of your **** when you tell him that you're mad, he doesn't like how you are, but he still likes you, you don't like how he behaves, but you still like him, and eventually, one of you will figure it out. The heart is honest, but it doesn't always tell you the truth. Finish this off, and ease up on those future boyfriends when they go visit exes and their families. You'll be a lot better girlfriend if you do, and if they cheat on you, it wasn't worth getting worked up over, was it?
Author Roxxiedott Posted June 29, 2015 Author Posted June 29, 2015 Awww... You're both trapped in this nightmare of not really liking each other all that much, but neither of you have quite figured it out yet. You seem to both be in a race to the finish line, and he's winning at the moment. You get mad at him for spending time how he likes. he's sick of your **** when you tell him that you're mad, he doesn't like how you are, but he still likes you, you don't like how he behaves, but you still like him, and eventually, one of you will figure it out. The heart is honest, but it doesn't always tell you the truth. Finish this off, and ease up on those future boyfriends when they go visit exes and their families. You'll be a lot better girlfriend if you do, and if they cheat on you, it wasn't worth getting worked up over, was it? Not once was I upset that he was with his ex. I was upset because of him becoming inconsistent with texting me all of a sudden lol
yxalitis Posted June 29, 2015 Posted June 29, 2015 Holy wall of text batman! Jesus, it's called a "Return" key, or sometimes "Enter" Use it...please!
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