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Some may remember me posting about a breakup I had in Jan. long story short was in a 6 month relationship, moved really fast, fell in crazy love, and was blindside broken up with.

 

I am not 100% over it and I still trying to figure out how to get my self esteem back. Anyways, why is it that when you're going through the healing process there are reminders everywhere? Do you think it could be something I don't know spiritual, or really just coincidence/ the normal thing that happens during the post breakup.

 

For instance i was at target the other day. They're getting ready for college kids to buy dorm stuff and they had those single alphabet letters you can buy. On top of the letters his name was written about the letter, why HIS name. On Friday there is this draw I never open at work. I thought I threw away all of our pics but I find this Polaroid of us 6 months after. I go to church and his old boss is directing traffic. We texted briefly last week because my curiosity got the best of me about a situation but it was me who initiated contacted, but fast forward 4 to 5 days he texted me "hey you". It like why lol.

 

I know this is kind of a bizarre post. The universe is strange sometimes and I wish it would give me a break. It's already bad enough that he's a cop and I'm reminded of him every time I see a cop but that's just life not what the thread is intended for.

 

** also why do exes feel the need to brag? Tell you who they've slept with, there sexual encounters with them, and mention they think they've met someone. My ex did this a few months ago. We contact each other it seems like every month or so. Mostly me I know bad, but today was the first for him.

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