Lizrd3000 Posted June 28, 2015 Posted June 28, 2015 So 2 days ago, my ex texted me asking if i got high grades for my exams, and i answered. A 2 hour long conversation about how and what we're doing followed. I lied to her that i had sex when she asked, then she told me she had sex with someone with alot of experience, but she also said that my package was more good looking and bigger. I think she was trying to flatter me while making me jealous.. I did put on a big confident lie that i was doing great, and she believed me. It looked like she was sad that i seemed further ahead in the healing process. I also told her that i dont want serious comittments for the coming time. She is still seeing the dude she cheated on with me, which is funny because she denied liking him when we were together. We talked about so much, but most of them were lies. I think i feel worse after contacting her and finding out she had sex with guys, and she also said that its hard to think of me when shes with someone else. Which i answered must be a good thing, to which she replied that its not because she has to still get over me. Contacting her made me angry and sad that she's having sex with other people, and guilt tripped because she has to still get over me and i care for her enough to sympathize. I guess the purpose of this post is to show that puting on a face and acting happy while having contact with your ex doesnt end well either. Back to day #1, as my appetite is gone yet again!
changeofseasons Posted June 28, 2015 Posted June 28, 2015 You're surprised that she's having sex with other guys, even though she cheated on you? I'm assuming she didnt cheat on you sexually, but i feel that's to be expected from that type. Don't get too down in the dumps, you probably are doing better than her from the looks of it.
erklat Posted June 28, 2015 Posted June 28, 2015 Yeah, she walked over you hard here. Well, now you know the stove is hawt and what to do next time.
quattrob Posted June 28, 2015 Posted June 28, 2015 If you needed to lie, you're better off not saying anything at all.. She may believe you but you're only hurting yourself and not her. You breaking contact was pretty pointless and there was no reason to. You obviously haven't gotten over her and now you're worse than you were before you 2 talked again. I may sound harsh but you have yourself to blame for putting yourself into that state you're in right now. I hope you learned your lesson.
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