ConfusedTrixie Posted June 28, 2015 Posted June 28, 2015 (edited) A while ago I met a girl in real life (not online) and I could tell from her body language that she liked me. It was at a mental hospital so the confined space increased her attraction. Anyway, we got out, and I called and sent a few texts to her phone. She texted me and asked if I had a car in order to get to her place. I sent a text saying I could make it. I wanted to suprise her so I got to her place and knocked on the door without texting her first. (Because they teach that we should be unpredictable.) She wasnt home and sent me a bunch of texts apologizing to me for not being home. A week later, we set up a meet to meet at her home, and she verbally agreed to it. I show up at her house shes not there. Despite her not giving me a warning text not to show up, she gives ME a hard time acting like im the villian. Of course, I dont apologize to her, and send her some texts letting her know what she did was not ok. So a few weeks later I contact her again to have a firm talk with her. On the phone we talk, and she gives me a bunch of excuses, but she does apologize. I can sense from her voice that she is still interested in me, and she tells me she might have kidney failure. She gets a call from her doctor and I hang up. I send her a text saying I will call her tommorow, so as not to be rude seeming. The next day I send her a simple text asking "What did the doctor say?" Instead of responding, she pretends to be another person, saying "Sorry wrong number" and blocks me. Furious, a few days later I send her a mean sounding text asking for her to declare herself, whether she is a friend or foe, and threatening to leave her. I dont know if she got it. I just feel like shes punishing me because I was genuinely worried about her physical health. I know girls play games, but I think its taking it too far when you are having serious life and death health problems and block a friend who is geniunely worried whether you are going to live or die. So, what should I do? Last text I sent her was really mean, but not that needy sounding. I dont think it went thru because its on block. She is a mess, still lives with her ex she claims is abusive and shes always talking **** about him, and when I called from another phone it said her mailbox was full. So theres no possibility of communicating with this woman. Should i apologize for the mean text, which might not even have went thru? I am worried about her physical health also. I know they preach that not caring increases attraction, but cmon, her health is in critical condition. There is a line to be drawn, should I not show her I care? Edited June 28, 2015 by ConfusedTrixie
WhatYouWantToHear Posted June 28, 2015 Posted June 28, 2015 So, what should I do? Leave it alone. Its over, done, finito. Move on. 2
CarrieT Posted June 28, 2015 Posted June 28, 2015 Walk away now... She clearly doesn't have her sh*t together well enough to even entertain a new relationship, so why should you want that?
Author ConfusedTrixie Posted July 15, 2015 Author Posted July 15, 2015 I'd just like to know, why people are such heartless cunts, who abandon their friends who love and care about them.
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