Sirias Posted June 28, 2015 Posted June 28, 2015 My gf broke up with me 4 weeks ago, she told me she was feeling unloved and that i had lack of affection for her,which it was true(she's also a bit insecure and she was clingy) what i wanted to know is if i have chances to take her back, i know it won't be easy, i won't make the same mistake again.
ssandeepsingh02 Posted June 28, 2015 Posted June 28, 2015 She was clingy n insecure coz you didn't show her enough affection.. Its clear..now its not something that can't be fixed..if you love her..meet her talk to her..discuss your problems..if she is willing..take her back..respect her n give her the love she deserves..n if you can't do that..just leave her alone..
changeofseasons Posted June 28, 2015 Posted June 28, 2015 She feels unloved, you feel smothered. Why do you want to go back to that? Breakups suck, but you got to ride it out if both parties arent happy.
Author Sirias Posted June 28, 2015 Author Posted June 28, 2015 I talked to her 4 days ago i told her about my problems at that time(big mistake i didn't when i wasn't with her ) she didn't believe me and told that if i was her bf why i didn't have the trust to tell her i couldn't response to that(she was right and a bit mad), i recognize it was my fault i ask for a second chance but she didn't want to. Now she even deleted our photos on instagram, i now for sure that the relationship should have last a lot more. Even though i am the dumpee i know she was almost force to do it so it feels like i am the dumper and she's the dumpee. I really love her my fault i didn't show her at the end of RS. I know there is no chance right now but i don't know what to do should leave her alone go full NC (dissapear) for about a year, then show up again and see what happens, meanwhile work on myself i now it will be worth it to take her back or continue apologizing, the problem is that i'm not sure what to do, i don't wanna go NC cause the opposite effect( like she would think i really didn't care and yeah i know the purpose of NC it's for me to move on) or try to continue with really LC and see what happens in a year?
Author Sirias Posted June 28, 2015 Author Posted June 28, 2015 Btw i didn't explained myself well, i was having family problems that's why i was distance
Satu Posted June 28, 2015 Posted June 28, 2015 I hope you haven't called her 'clingy and insecure.' That really wouldn't help.
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