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We are all at a lose as to why he is marring her?


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My cousin marrying this women who is 46 and lives at home for 5 years after her second divorce with her 9 year old daughter and 8 year old son. She is a horder (and he sees this), no control over her kids. No money. Had a good job and child support but still had no money and he lends her money most months. Tons of ex husband drama. She lost her job because she wasn't doing a good job (constantly texting him) and got a new job for less money which she is constantly complaining about.. She lives over 2 hours from his work and he is going to move out by her and drive that distance both ways every day? She is not very bright even though she has a masters (which she can't find a job in her field). Also she isn't attractive and she is heavy. Also has bad breath. Very bad. The few unfortunately. The few times I met her she is either giggling like a kid or pissed off about something. He already has 2 grown children, he wants to to this all over again with a women who can't take care of herself? Just trying to understand because he had a really nice independent attractive woman before her. Also he isn't always with her on the weekends so you wonder if he is seeing other women. Although he did propose so....

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He sees something in her that you don't. All you can do is be supportive (or at least keep your mouth shut if you can't affirmatively be supportive) & hope that things work out in his best interests. When they don't, be there to pick up the pieces.

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