vyacc1 Posted June 27, 2015 Posted June 27, 2015 So i found out my girlfriend was cheating on me with her ex. We have only been together for 3 months, but I really fell for this girl and I thought she really fell for me. That last week or 2 of the relationship seemed distant I knew there was a problem. My question is I went no contact right when i found out about the cheating. This was all 24 hours ago. Will she still miss me and contact me when she is more then likely back with her ex?
PrettyEmily77 Posted June 27, 2015 Posted June 27, 2015 Firstly, sorry this has happened to you . She's obviously a liar, you know that for a fact - I would take whatever she says to you from now on with a bucketful of salt, TBH. 1
casey.lives Posted June 27, 2015 Posted June 27, 2015 you're nobody to this person. you were a pawn in their love game. sorry..
Clarence_Boddicker Posted June 27, 2015 Posted June 27, 2015 Who knows? Don't let her. Full NC. 3 months with no kids, you don't have enough history or attachments to care. Pretend she's dead. 2
Elleque Posted June 28, 2015 Posted June 28, 2015 Maybe? Probably? It's all about the pre-emptive action. Block her on Facebook so she can't message you. Download an app on your phone so her calls and text won't come through and find a way to block emails. Do it while your angery, that way if/when she makes contact you won't be tempted to communicate back.
No Limit Posted June 28, 2015 Posted June 28, 2015 At best you were a rebound to her. But most likely she and her ex are just trying to make each other jealous, not caring about who they implicate in their toxic game. You dodged one hell of a bullet there.
organizedchaos Posted June 28, 2015 Posted June 28, 2015 So i found out my girlfriend was cheating on me with her ex. We have only been together for 3 months, but I really fell for this girl and I thought she really fell for me. That last week or 2 of the relationship seemed distant I knew there was a problem. My question is I went no contact right when i found out about the cheating. This was all 24 hours ago. Will she still miss me and contact me when she is more then likely back with her ex? 1. Unlikely to miss you given she felt disconnected enough to cheat on you after just 2 1/2 months. If she feels strongly enough about you to miss you, she wouldn't have cheated. 2. On the other hand, how in the world are any of us able to answer that? We're not psychic.
DexterLS Posted June 28, 2015 Posted June 28, 2015 Probably not. It looks like you were just a rebound and as much as this hurts, there's nothing you can do but let go.
whichwayisup Posted June 28, 2015 Posted June 28, 2015 So i found out my girlfriend was cheating on me with her ex. We have only been together for 3 months, but I really fell for this girl and I thought she really fell for me. That last week or 2 of the relationship seemed distant I knew there was a problem. My question is I went no contact right when i found out about the cheating. This was all 24 hours ago. Will she still miss me and contact me when she is more then likely back with her ex? What was the time frame here? Her relationship ending and then you two dating? After 3 months and she cheats on you with her ex, unfortunately it seems like they weren't really over each other and sorry to say you were a rebound. Maybe she will miss you a bit but not enough to get back together with you. She does owe you an apology but I doubt you'll get one. Try to keep busy and know that you didn't do anything wrong here, this is all on her.
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