SJ69 Posted June 27, 2015 Posted June 27, 2015 My girlfriend and I have been together for about 8 months. We're two college students who attend the same school but live about and 1 and a 1/2 hours from each other. The relationship started off rocky with her talking to multiple guys and being belligerent drunk at a party and becoming overly friendly. I'm pretty relaxed when I'm not drinking, not too social but she's very social so we're a bit opposite in that department. However, I've had my mistakes too. Hers account for what I noted above, commenting on people's social media pictures that are friends leaving attractive emojis, talking about having sex to her bestfriend, etc. I let this go. I don't believe she has physically done anything but the thought always lingers. For me, I have kissed another women months ago, texted them, acted fairly single at parties, etc. Her most recent mishap was yesterday with the social media comment, mine was about 3 months ago. I solely want her but I do not believe she solely wants me. I guess you can call me fairly insecure. We sometimes put our hands on each other in front of friends in public and comments have been made to us. Sometimes I don't know if I'm the one wrong, if she is, or if I'm making up problems in my head. I constantly have to check her phone because I don't trust her at all. She thinks of only herself most of the time and I get frustrated with it. She makes comments in anger that she feels constantly put down and annoyed with the constant arguing. However, we truly love each other we just have no clue on how to get it right at all. Every time we think about being done I get upset and she begins to cry and beg for it not go end. I really need some advice, an answer on how to get it right or simply what to do.
d0nnivain Posted June 27, 2015 Posted June 27, 2015 Social media is fake. If all you are worried about is some stupid emoticon she posted somewhere you have to chill out. It's meaningless. If she's dating you even if she tells another guy he looks attractive on a particular occasion -- e.g. gives someone a compliment, that should not trigger suspicion & a desire to call off your relationship.
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