Everlastinglite Posted June 27, 2015 Posted June 27, 2015 We met on the app pof and even the very first time meeting him and getting in his car, i was never nervous! I even sat on his lap the very first date and i was comfortable but i never felt my heart skip a beat like what u see on tv or movies where they get so nervous. I felt his heart beating tho haha. But its not like i dont like him...i like him toooo much and i feel like im just so comfortable and safe with him that he never made me nervous. I never did anything with anyone else except for him...he was my first everything. Even when i lost my virginity to him i wasnt overlythinking the moment, i just let it happen. Whenever we makeout in the movie theater i would be on his chest and feel his heart beat so fast n it just makes me kinda giggle bc in over here so calm n everything lol. Is this a normal feeling? Whenever i had crushes in school, even seeing them i would get so nervous. How come i dont with my bf??
Gaeta Posted June 27, 2015 Posted June 27, 2015 Now you know the difference between life and movies. Having a crush on someone is a different phenomena than connecting with someone compatible. Your crush is a chemical rush in your brain. It's intense but temporary. Meeting someone and connecting with them on a deeper level is much more rewarding and solid. Sometimes big crushes can turn into relationships but most of the time it fades as fast as it starts.
smackie9 Posted June 27, 2015 Posted June 27, 2015 You are not some kid in school anymore, you are an adult( well I suspect you are one). Time to get you head out of fantasy land with the movie stuff, because movies are made with buckets of made up crap and not are real. You are living real life, and what is happening with you and your BF is the norm. Have fun with it.
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