mikelongtolt Posted June 27, 2015 Posted June 27, 2015 Hi alls, In my earlier post (1.What Nelson Mandela taught me about forgiveness and 2. My ex texted me happy birthday) and now is still the same exin which 3 months ago she texed me the following and i was in the gym, read her msg bu t did not reply coz i was wearig mitts and unable to type. So i just thought if i still in the mood after my workout i will just send a courtesy reply...however as below: Ex : hi happy friday. How have been. 7.45pm so after so long u decided to unfriend me? 8.14pm why are u so calculative? U alwiz siad tht u are a gentlemen.all are just talk only.9.15pm Fine. No more friends. 10.30pm Fyi i finished working out around 9.30pm and left the gym at 10pm after a shower. only able to read her final msg around 11pm after i got home. Tempted to reply just to tell her off but i want to be a better person than she is thus i just ignored. That was 3 mths ago giving me her ultimatum. In all her previous attempts to reach out to me since we broke up almosy 1 and half years ago, i had always been courteous and polite but indifferent. She texted me again last night and asked to catch up one day? What gives, right? Now, I have long moved on, I forgave all there is to forgive and hold no grudges....and based on principles I cant hang out with her anymore, as to show that i an forgive but dont mean i can accept her abusive and disrespectful treatment whilst we were together. I will not analyse nor even spend any fraction of my energy to attempt to analyse her text as I am moving on real well. I just need some suggesttions how can i tell her the above mentioned matter with full respect and courtesy that there is no need to be in touch anymore and she shud move on without feeling any guilt, if any, and live her life the best way she can. Thanks a lot peeps.
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