juststarry6443 Posted June 27, 2015 Posted June 27, 2015 I just ended my 4 1/2 year relationship. To him...it seems out of the blue and unreasonable, but I have been holding things in, giving chances, & letting things go for months. Today, I just blew my top off & couldn't take it anymore. I know it's what's best for me, but I don't feel good about my decision at all. He's sad. I'm sad. He's crying. &I'm crying. He was my first boyfriend. He loved me with all his heart but the things tht come out to show it gets mixed up. That's why I always forgive him & tell myself he didn't mean it. I keep replaying reasons why my relationship was going bad & why my decision makes sense but then I still keep going back like really is tht a good enough reason?
aisuru Posted June 27, 2015 Posted June 27, 2015 Breakups can be tough for both parties, regardless of why they occurred. I might recommend you write down the reasons for you breaking up as a reminder for you when you're feeling weak. I'm sorry you are going through this pain.
Happines Posted June 27, 2015 Posted June 27, 2015 I broke up with my boyfriend 3 weeks ago so I totally understand how u feel I loved him loads and was constantly giving excuses to his behaviour because I wanted to believe that he really loved me...really is that if u really do love the person u try to b your best you don't hurt them and u actually put effort in it I don't know what exactly he did but it looks there were many things over many years so honestly sit down and write them down like the previous person suggested coz I did the same and realised that my ex started doing not very nice things like 1 month into relationship but I chose to ignore it saying well I am over reacting or well it's different culture and etc but in reality it was because he was pretty selfish never thought about other and having a girlf was just a convenience because he was one of those people who didn't like being alone...after I left I got promised he will seek help and do all it take did us to b together because he can't imagine his life without me but less then a week after my move out he was already sort of seeing someone so there you go how much he loves me after all I did for him So u have to sit down and see how bad are the things he did and di u actually believe that he would work on it and do u still want to work on it
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