Nedmeid Posted June 27, 2015 Posted June 27, 2015 I was wondering something, i even start to think my boyfriend is gay. His best friend even starts to look gay, with his haircut and all. They know each other over 10years. we know each other 4 years.. with a year break up, trying to move on without the other, but we got back together. It's like my boyfriend cant be a day without him! He even works with him and then in the night i have to beg him almost to come home., they smoke w together after work. I told my boyfriend if u like to be with him then go live with him! Because we are living together but he keeps telling me he wants to marry me and have kids with me.. Im so confusedddddddd, i just wish he would make time for me, take me places and have fun with me. HE KNOWS but he doesnt...
Fleur de cactus Posted June 27, 2015 Posted June 27, 2015 If you think he is gay, you probably have strong reasons to suspect thay he is gay. Then, there is a chance that he is bisexual. 1
casey.lives Posted June 27, 2015 Posted June 27, 2015 you're just his pussy. you don't matter. his heart has a home
sandylee1 Posted June 27, 2015 Posted June 27, 2015 Don't marry a man who makes his friend more important than you. I don't see this getting any better unless you put your foot down and insist on some change. 1
smackie9 Posted June 27, 2015 Posted June 27, 2015 Sorry but you can't change him. Like I always say go by their actions, not by what they say to you. If his behavior is causing you distress, get out of the relationship.
Gaeta Posted June 27, 2015 Posted June 27, 2015 Because we are living together but he keeps telling me he wants to marry me and have kids with me.. Im so confusedddddddd, i just wish he would make time for me, take me places and have fun with me. HE KNOWS but he doesnt... Don't marry a man that doesn't make you a priority you'll end up in a long lonely marriage. Relationships don't change because there is a wedding. I remember years ago when I was a young married mom, my husband was always spending his free time with his buddy. He would come in late at night on week days and he would disappear with him on weekends for long periods of time. I started thinking what the heck!! is he having an affair with a man!! Turns out my husband was having a gambling addiction and this man was his gambling buddy. If I were you I would dig deeper, I wouldn't be surprised that your boyfriend has a drug buddy or something like that. Something that is more important than you.
JuneJulySeptember Posted June 27, 2015 Posted June 27, 2015 (edited) Let him enjoy hanging out with his buddy if it brings him happiness. If it makes you feel better, I can almost guarantee that after you have children with the man you are with, that man will basically NEVER see his friends again. And not only will he not see them, in many cases he won't want to because he's so preoccupied with his family. That's how these things work. A glimpse into the future. So, yea, let him enjoy this phase of life. Don't be jealous because there will come a time when he will ignore or even completely drop all his friends and you'll have him all to yourself. Edited June 27, 2015 by JuneJulySeptember
newmoon Posted June 27, 2015 Posted June 27, 2015 if you have any thoughts at all that he's gay you're going to have a tough time seeing him as a "man." and if you've accused him of being gay (and he's not) you're killing, or have killed, the relationship for long-term. a non-gay man wont be ok with you thinking he might be gay. he could be bisexual, or he could just like the friend time more than time with you. but either way it's not you that makes him happy.
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