kasop Posted June 26, 2015 Posted June 26, 2015 Out of the blue my ex texted me. She said "hey" and a few minutes after said "sorry." Thats it. This just happened so im posting here instead of texting back. Talk about a bread crumb. She dumped me and i did the begging thing for about a week or two and so on. Last nc break i was hurt and said some thing that started a fight and i felt awful afterward. That was about a month ago. I havent herd anything about her and took her of my facebook so i have no idea what shes been up too. Ive made previous post about her if you want to go back and read. I was pretty devestated when i was writing but i have come a long way sense. I cant help but want to text her back. She was the girl of my dreams and i compare every girl to her because of how deeply attracted i was to her and her personality. Why did she say sorry? Why did she text me in the first place? I feel like she just wants a rise out of me. To get an ego boost because shes having a bad day. Thanks LS
Naturebox Posted June 26, 2015 Posted June 26, 2015 Out of the blue my ex texted me. She said "hey" and a few minutes after said "sorry." Thats it. This just happened so im posting here instead of texting back. Talk about a bread crumb. She dumped me and i did the begging thing for about a week or two and so on. Last nc break i was hurt and said some thing that started a fight and i felt awful afterward. That was about a month ago. I havent herd anything about her and took her of my facebook so i have no idea what shes been up too. Ive made previous post about her if you want to go back and read. I was pretty devestated when i was writing but i have come a long way sense. I cant help but want to text her back. She was the girl of my dreams and i compare every girl to her because of how deeply attracted i was to her and her personality. Why did she say sorry? Why did she text me in the first place? I feel like she just wants a rise out of me. To get an ego boost because shes having a bad day. Thanks LS lmao two words is nothing, thats a plastic worm on a fish hook took her 1 second to send that and she put no thought behind it, keep ignoring 2
dumbass2 Posted June 26, 2015 Posted June 26, 2015 Nothing to reply to. you really need to get more than that. Like the other poster said, it was nothing and took seconds to do. No thought or even a legit question behind it. She is expecting a response. Don't give it and maybe if there is a next time, she will be more serious with a text if there is anything there to work with. Right now, there is absolutely nothing there to work with. Advice is to do nothing. Come back and let us know if you ever get anything more significant then the worst of bread crumbs like you got.
Clarence_Boddicker Posted June 26, 2015 Posted June 26, 2015 It could be an innocent mistake, she didn't really mean to text you. 1
Author kasop Posted June 26, 2015 Author Posted June 26, 2015 I get that it wasent much said but its opening up a line of communication that she started. Not me. So its kind of a big deal to me. But i will ignore.
mightycpa Posted June 26, 2015 Posted June 26, 2015 I'm with Clarence... she probably wanted to type in something like KASTLEbut the autocomplete took over and put you in, and when she realized it was you - OH ****!then, in as few characters as possible, she alerted you to her mistake. Forget about it. 1
frigginlost Posted June 26, 2015 Posted June 26, 2015 I get that it wasent much said but its opening up a line of communication that she started. Not me. So its kind of a big deal to me. But i will ignore. Nobody on these boards know her. You know her best. Do not take what any of us say as what you should do. Only you can decide based on what you know of her... We can all offer advice based on our own experiences, but only you can make the decision based on what you know of her. A lot of folks on these board (myself included at times) project our own displeasure and feelings with our own individual circumstances onto others. Try to remember that. It is always your call on how to react... 3
Author kasop Posted June 26, 2015 Author Posted June 26, 2015 I feel like any way she said sorry to close the line of communication. She doesnt want me to reply. Just shows how little she actually wants to connect with me. And i dont want to sound desperate so if i go fishing for a reason it will most likley backfire on me.
Author kasop Posted June 26, 2015 Author Posted June 26, 2015 I'm with Clarence... she probably wanted to type in something like but the autocomplete took over and put you in, and when she realized it was you - then, in as few characters as possible, she alerted you to her mistake. Forget about it. I could ask her if it was the wrong person but what good will that do?
frigginlost Posted June 26, 2015 Posted June 26, 2015 I feel like any way she said sorry to close the line of communication. She doesnt want me to reply. Just shows how little she actually wants to connect with me. And i dont want to sound desperate so if i go fishing for a reason it will most likley backfire on me. There ya have it. No need to contact her. If it was truly meant for you, and a serious fishing expedition, she will text again...
Author kasop Posted June 26, 2015 Author Posted June 26, 2015 I do remember that i texted her over a week ago saying hey.. i had a week moment. She might just be getting back to me and thats what the sorry was for. Even if thats the case i honestly dont even know what i would say to her..
somecamel Posted June 26, 2015 Posted June 26, 2015 Best not to reply dude. I haven't read your back story but I'd put this down as a breadcrumb. You had a weak moment and text her, she had a weak moment a week later and text you. Personally, I'd delete the text. 1
aloneinaz Posted June 27, 2015 Posted June 27, 2015 Put all this "I texted her, she (may have) texted you" into perspective. It really means nothing other than holding you back from healing and moving on. So, she texts you and says she wants you back? I'm betting you take her back. Then, a week or a month or two passes and she dumps you again. That's the odds here. She ended it for a reason. Nothings changed. If you want to truly heal and move on, block her number or delete it from your phone so you won't be tempted to text her again nor will you see if she wants to play w/your head by texting. 1
Author kasop Posted June 27, 2015 Author Posted June 27, 2015 Put all this "I texted her, she (may have) texted you" into perspective. It really means nothing other than holding you back from healing and moving on. So, she texts you and says she wants you back? I'm betting you take her back. Then, a week or a month or two passes and she dumps you again. That's the odds here. She ended it for a reason. Nothings changed. If you want to truly heal and move on, block her number or delete it from your phone so you won't be tempted to text her again nor will you see if she wants to play w/your head by texting. Your right aloneinaz.. i keep telling myself "whats the point?" Theres zero chance of it working out at this point so why even bother. I cant handle a relationship in my life right now anyways. So be it. Not responding is the best thing i could do.
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