Mm1111 Posted June 26, 2015 Posted June 26, 2015 I was seeing a guy for about two months, Everything was going good and I met some of his family and friends. Last Thursday we met as normal and I stayed over but didn't hear from him from until Tuesday when he text to say he broke his phone and couldn't go ahead with our plans this week as arranged due to work. I text him back just general chat and he didn't reply but I know he was working that night. I text him wednesday to see would he like to meet up Thursday or Friday and he said he was working and had to go away on Friday which I know is true and asked me what I was at but I didn't reply because I don't know what is going on. I replied last night asking him how his day was etc and told him about mine l. He didn't text back but I did have a missed call on whatsapp at 4am (he would be finished work around this time) I know there is no one else involved as we have mutual friends and I would have heard if there was. I can read between the lines he's not interested which is fine but since we live so near and socialise in the same area I don't want a bad atmosphere between us for no reason. Does anyone think I will ever hear from him again??
Redhead14 Posted June 26, 2015 Posted June 26, 2015 I was seeing a guy for about two months, Everything was going good and I met some of his family and friends. Last Thursday we met as normal and I stayed over but didn't hear from him from until Tuesday when he text to say he broke his phone and couldn't go ahead with our plans this week as arranged due to work. I text him back just general chat and he didn't reply but I know he was working that night. I text him wednesday to see would he like to meet up Thursday or Friday and he said he was working and had to go away on Friday which I know is true and asked me what I was at but I didn't reply because I don't know what is going on. I replied last night asking him how his day was etc and told him about mine l. He didn't text back but I did have a missed call on whatsapp at 4am (he would be finished work around this time) I know there is no one else involved as we have mutual friends and I would have heard if there was. I can read between the lines he's not interested which is fine but since we live so near and socialise in the same area I don't want a bad atmosphere between us for no reason. Does anyone think I will ever hear from him again?? There is no way to know. I would leave the ball in his court. Don't reach out to him anymore. If he's really still interested, he will wonder where you are and reach out to you. You need to set a limit for yourself though. In other words, if he contacts you and it's been two weeks, will you be receptive? That's up to you when he calls. If he says all the "right" things and you're still interested, try again and see if the pattern improves. Don't be intimate with him until the pattern does improve though.
endlessabyss Posted June 26, 2015 Posted June 26, 2015 I was seeing a guy for about two months, Everything was going good and I met some of his family and friends. Last Thursday we met as normal and I stayed over but didn't hear from him from until Tuesday when he text to say he broke his phone and couldn't go ahead with our plans this week as arranged due to work. I text him back just general chat and he didn't reply but I know he was working that night. I text him wednesday to see would he like to meet up Thursday or Friday and he said he was working and had to go away on Friday which I know is true and asked me what I was at but I didn't reply because I don't know what is going on. I replied last night asking him how his day was etc and told him about mine l. He didn't text back but I did have a missed call on whatsapp at 4am (he would be finished work around this time) I know there is no one else involved as we have mutual friends and I would have heard if there was. I can read between the lines he's not interested which is fine but since we live so near and socialise in the same area I don't want a bad atmosphere between us for no reason. Does anyone think I will ever hear from him again?? Nope; it's over.
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