thorin Posted June 26, 2015 Posted June 26, 2015 Its about 4 months after a breakup, and NC (with about 2-3 short breaks for breadcrumbs). She dumped me, we were together for about 8 months. How can i reach indifference, if I dont miss her as a person, but just miss a relationship, and have feelings of betrayal (her sleeping with others)? I am sure I dont want her back, shes not worth missing her, but I cant fight off those heartaches from time to time, and nostalgic memories. If I texted her now, Im sure I would get emotional and sucked in, and I want to be in a place where I feel nothing whatever her response is. I pretend like she doesnt exist, nobody from my environment talks about her anymore, I ignored her friends, and our mutual friends...so whats wrong? I promised myself that Ill buy a new computer, take a couple days off from work and play witcher 3 when I reach indifference, so....
Yummm Posted June 26, 2015 Posted June 26, 2015 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/coping/534658-need-some-guidance-indifference Looks like it's just time buddy
Ariess10 Posted June 26, 2015 Posted June 26, 2015 It really is TIME .. If you look over the years of breakups and what people really do to "heal" and "be ok" .. You'll find its removing yourself from that person in every way possible .. Time is your best friend to lick your wounds and be ok with it.. It won't happen fast it happens in time
casey.lives Posted June 26, 2015 Posted June 26, 2015 don't forget. it is helpful work with the pain. that's what I do. who cares. keep that pain in your heart so you wont live that shat again. when you are in pain nothing can cause you more pain. it's a blessing to me. I embrace it so much I don't want any other feelings now.
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