Jess xx Posted April 30, 2005 Posted April 30, 2005 Firstly I'd like to say these forums are SO comforting to me, people worldwide giving each other advice...why couldn't our exes just be like us! I am freaking out now about how bad I am feeling, I really can't eat which just makes me feel like Im panicing all day long and I cannot get my ex out of my head and I really don't feel up to going out with friends yet in case I fall apart... I know they'd be compassionate but I just don't feel up to this. The last i saw my ex was a week ago and NC for 2 days...please assure me this mental feeling will pass
Marshbear Posted April 30, 2005 Posted April 30, 2005 It will pass. You will move on. We have all been there and feeling as you do. We made it and you will too.
Author Jess xx Posted April 30, 2005 Author Posted April 30, 2005 How long have you been going through it? If you don't mind me asking?
teebee Posted April 30, 2005 Posted April 30, 2005 Hi, I'm new to this message board but I'm feeling the same way. You will miss him terribly and it will be very crazy for you. Honestly the best thing to do is call him and ask him what he wants and then you will get your closure. If he choose time then give that to him and see what happens. Falling apart is not sexy so keep it together and play your cards right. Always have the upper hand, don't let any man tell you what to do. gl
Marshbear Posted April 30, 2005 Posted April 30, 2005 Me and my ex proke up 8 months ago. It took me a good 6 months to finally accept that it was over. I might say I broke up with her but I still missed her and loved her even though I needed to leave her. I still miss her but the pain is much less and I am much happier that I moved on. She is unhappy and still hates me but that is another story. My point is that you will improve and heal in time. All is not lost or bleak... Hang in there..
Author Jess xx Posted April 30, 2005 Author Posted April 30, 2005 Thanks Marshbear. TeeBee, I know what he wants, me apparently but his actions with someone else have contradicted himself over the past months!!! So as much as I love him I really could never trust him again. Can't live with him, can't live without...for the moment anyway.
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