Jackie13 Posted June 25, 2015 Posted June 25, 2015 (edited) Alright, So basically I'm kind of a shy 18 year old guy from Norway who just met this girl at work and fell in love with her at an instant. I'm really bad at writing stuff like this but i'm gonna try my best I just started working at this place about 2 weeks ago. and there's this girl that's working there who i fell in love with at the exact moment i saw her. It was literally love at first sight, She's astonishing beautiful. She never wears any makeup so she's without a doubt a natural beauty. As soon as she saw me she blushed and started smiling, I dont know if that was because i was smiling like a retard myself or because she found me good looking aswell. But anyways, Later that day we had a chat and introduced ourselves to eachother and so on. She got the same interests as me which is great. Whenever i'm around her my body feels warm and my heart keep pounding. I've never felt this for anyone. Sure, I've been interested in plenty of girls but this one is special. Whenever i'm not around her it feels like a piece of me is missing. It hurts inside. When i'm at home all i can think of is her. She's in my mind 24/7. I might sound like a psycho but seriously. It's ****ing crazy how you can love someone that you just met this much. She's always happy when she's around me. We've been walking eachother home every single day. Everything she does indicates that she finds me interesting aswell. But the thing is that she got a boyfriend. I know, Now you're all gonna say that she's probably happy with what she got already and that i should just forget about her. I've keep trying to forget her since she got a boyfriend. She's constantly texting him at work, But she still shows interest in me. I dont know how i should take it. Whever i look at her she smiles and so forth. At work we're with eachother at all time so it's not like i only see her twice a day. We keep seeing eachother all the time. She seems happy with her boyfriend but i just.. I dont even know, It's weird. Even though i KNOW that she's taken and that she probably only see me as a friend i keep thinking that somewhere deep inside she want to start something with me aswell. It's so tough. We never communicate in any way when we're home, It's just at work. I dont know what to do. As i said above, She's the right one for me. I cant stop thinking about her. She's on my mind 70% of the day. I can feel it but her boyfriend keeps messing it all up and i dont even know if she likes me back. Also forget to tell you that i'm only gonna work with her for another 2 weeks. So i have limited time to do something about this. It might sound crazy but idk what im supposed to do after these 2 weeks. It might be easier to forget about her but for now. It ****ing hurts to see her with another guy. She's my first real love. What should i do? If you have any questions just ask. I'm off to bed now since i gotta get up for work tomorrow. Edited June 25, 2015 by Jackie13
Popsicle Posted June 25, 2015 Posted June 25, 2015 Poor guy. You sound like me. I tend to fall in love instantaneously too.
Popsicle Posted June 25, 2015 Posted June 25, 2015 You have to train yourself to find out if they have a boyfriend like first conversation so you don't fall into this place again. And if they do have one, stop talking to them immediately, no matter how much you don't want to.
gaius Posted June 25, 2015 Posted June 25, 2015 Just make a move already. If you want something, take it.
neowulf Posted June 25, 2015 Posted June 25, 2015 Just flip this on it's head for a second. Ok, you got this great girl. Things are wonderful for the two of you. But then, this guy she works with gets a real hard on for her and starts hitting on her, all the while *knowing* she's already in a relationship with you.. So.. how's that feel to you? Knowing some other guy is hitting on your girlfriend? What would you think about doing do that guy? Yeah.. don't mess with other people's girlfriends man. It's a huge world with a lot of people in it. You're infatuated, not in love. Don't confuse the two.
d0nnivain Posted June 25, 2015 Posted June 25, 2015 What you do is two fold. First you recognize that you are infatuated with her not in love. You can't be in love with somebody you are not dating because you don't actually know the person. Second, you do nothing because she has a BF and you don't want to be a homewrecker. Remember, somebody who cheats with you, will cheat ON you. 1
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