tito1501 Posted June 25, 2015 Posted June 25, 2015 I went to the club with the 'best friend' of my girlfriend whilst she was traveling. This guys said a lot of things about her to me such as "she is playing with you, she still likea her and so on". It was really awkwars because he is a good friend of her but I know this guys dislikes me for no reason, maybe he loves her or something. I texted her the other day in the morning saying that I heard things about her and I wanted to listen to her about it. She replied 3 hours later saying she had no internet and could only Skype later, she was desperate to know what happened though. I think that this is such a serious issue and if she really cared about how I feel, she would have done everything she could to talk to me and clarify everything because she KNEW I was feeling bad. My question is, because she texted me at 2am yesterday saying that she could Skype at that moment (wtf queen?): Should I Skype and clarify everything or should I remain in silence for a few days to make her think and realize that she is not the only girl in this planet? I just think that silence sometimes is the best option.
ExpatInItaly Posted June 25, 2015 Posted June 25, 2015 I went to the club with the 'best friend' of my girlfriend whilst she was traveling. This guys said a lot of things about her to me such as "she is playing with you, she still likea her and so on". It was really awkwars because he is a good friend of her but I know this guys dislikes me for no reason, maybe he loves her or something. I texted her the other day in the morning saying that I heard things about her and I wanted to listen to her about it. She replied 3 hours later saying she had no internet and could only Skype later, she was desperate to know what happened though. I think that this is such a serious issue and if she really cared about how I feel, she would have done everything she could to talk to me and clarify everything because she KNEW I was feeling bad. My question is, because she texted me at 2am yesterday saying that she could Skype at that moment (wtf queen?): Should I Skype and clarify everything or should I remain in silence for a few days to make her think and realize that she is not the only girl in this planet? I just think that silence sometimes is the best option. So she asked you to communicate as soon as she was available (even though it was very late) and you didn't respond. She in fact did what she could to talk to you. And you iced her out? No, silence is not the best option. Don't play games. Learn how to communicate like an adult. Your relationship won't last otherwise. How old are you both? 3
Lois_Griffin Posted June 25, 2015 Posted June 25, 2015 This guys said a lot of things about her to me such as "she is playing with you, she still likea her and so on". Spell check is your friend. I have no idea what the hell this means. WHO does she still 'like?' Jesus. 3
SycamoreCircle Posted June 25, 2015 Posted June 25, 2015 Yes, I agree. I can't help you if you don't help your grammar.
GoBlue Posted June 25, 2015 Posted June 25, 2015 The first thing that needs to be understood is that you were hearing gossip from a guy who doesn't even like you. What does the phrase "she's not the only girl on the planet" even have to do with your relationship? Are you trying to imply that she isn't that big of a deal to you and if she doesn't respond when you want her to respond then you'll move on to the next girl? If that's true then why were you "feeling bad?" I mean you stated that she was "desperate to know what happened" but you can't be patient enough to talk to her when she was able? Is this really a mutually loving relationship? What do you want her to do?
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