fitnessfan365 Posted June 25, 2015 Posted June 25, 2015 Read OLD profiles. What do a lot of women say they want? Humor, good conversation, wit, confidence, etc.. These are all things that come from interaction. So if the average woman needs her mind/emotions stimulated, wouldn't it make more sense to build attraction by talking to her? Look at all the average Joe's with beautiful women. Do you think they hooked those women based on intense eye contact and physical attraction alone? Probably not. Plus, what do you always hear women say? "I wasn't attracted to him initially, but he became really sexy after I got to know him". If anything, it shows more balls/confidence for a guy to walk up to a woman he didn't get any obvious signs from.
jay1983 Posted June 25, 2015 Posted June 25, 2015 I only approach if I am getting signs of attraction from a women, usually holding eye contact for a bit, and smiling. You can usually feel it if someone is into you initially. I won't approach someone cold who has yet to give me any of these signs. Apparently some people can't. 1
neowulf Posted June 25, 2015 Posted June 25, 2015 Today's women appear to be very guarded against cold approaches. I can't say I really blame them. I seriously have trouble getting women to make eye contact at all. Frankly, if a women isn't making eye contact or at least giving a small smile, no way am I going to approach. Probably doesn't help that I walk about the world looking super serious and not particularly friendly...
BronzeAgeJaeger217 Posted June 29, 2015 Posted June 29, 2015 (edited) yes, but it's a matter of becoming more disciplined while doing it Edited June 29, 2015 by BronzeAgeJaeger217
danmillar Posted June 29, 2015 Posted June 29, 2015 I didn't reply because I don't know how to explain that to you. How in the hell do i write that out? It's a look that says "ooh" if you don't know it, then I don't know what to tell you. A look that says "ooh." OK, got it.
joseb Posted June 29, 2015 Posted June 29, 2015 I used to go in cold a lot. A buddy of mine and I would make a game of it. Pick a girl and you had 5 seconds before approaching. I think it did more harm than good for my self confidence. These days I need some kind of interest before approaching.
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