walkingonair Posted June 25, 2015 Posted June 25, 2015 I broke up with him about a month ago because he has commitment issues and is afraid of being in a serious relatonship. And everytime we got close he would push me away and i got sick of it and broke up with him even though i didn't want to break up with him. He has a lot of issues he has anixety and gets depressed often and is terriffied of rejection and getting hurt in a relationship. He then removed me as a friend on fb. Then 2 weeks after break up he texted me and said he hates not seeing my face and we texted but then i didn't hear from him.2 weeks passed again and yesterday he texted me again, we texted most of the day and then he asked to see me.I agreed because i really miss him but he said hes not free the next two weekends but free a week after that.I got mad and said i'm not free that week so we decied to meet a week ater that.Why is he doing this?why is he only free in two weeks?I know he isnt actually busy i feel like he thinks i want a relationship with him again so he wants to distance?I know it's not a booty call or w.e because when we did date he didnt want to have sex most of the time cause he said sex is too much for him to handle cause he has intimacy issues.
La.Primavera Posted June 25, 2015 Posted June 25, 2015 Is this the guy who sent the text "I just got a table.. whoops sorry wrong Kate" after you broke up? Do you really still want to be with someone who not only has commitment issues but is immature and insecure? He said he missed you then proceeded to ignore you for a fortnight, then he decides he wants to see you but not for another two weeks. It almost sounds like he is keeping you as a backup, giving you just enough breadcrumbs to stop you from moving on. This behaviour is evidence that nothing has changed. It will always be mind games with this guy. Think carefully about what you do here. If you continue to stay in contact with him this could drag on for a long time and you will be the one who suffers the most. Think about the time you waste on this guy is time you could be spending on getting to know another guy with actual relationship potential. This guy has nothing to offer you but heartbreak.
katiegrl Posted June 25, 2015 Posted June 25, 2015 I broke up with him about a month ago because he has commitment issues and is afraid of being in a serious relatonship. And everytime we got close he would push me away and i got sick of it and broke up with him even though i didn't want to break up with him. He has a lot of issues he has anixety and gets depressed often and is terriffied of rejection and getting hurt in a relationship. He then removed me as a friend on fb. Then 2 weeks after break up he texted me and said he hates not seeing my face and we texted but then i didn't hear from him.2 weeks passed again and yesterday he texted me again, we texted most of the day and then he asked to see me.I agreed because i really miss him but he said hes not free the next two weekends but free a week after that.I got mad and said i'm not free that week so we decied to meet a week ater that.Why is he doing this?why is he only free in two weeks?I know he isnt actually busy i feel like he thinks i want a relationship with him again so he wants to distance?I know it's not a booty call or w.e because when we did date he didnt want to have sex most of the time cause he said sex is too much for him to handle cause he has intimacy issues. Why is HE doing this? I think the question you should be asking yourself is....why are YOU *allowing* him to do this? Block him, delete him ...if he contacts you from a different number, ignore him. You still have some power here, use it! I know you miss him....but so what? He's messing with your head and heart....who knows why and frankly who cares. Make the decision to end this nonsense and then just do it. YOUR choice.
Toodaloo Posted June 25, 2015 Posted June 25, 2015 Oh dear Lordy - ditch this guy. Life is too short for stupid games like this.
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