Have you ever turned down an attractive partner for sex because you were too nervous?

[Hopeful30]

The question speaks for itself.

[Satu]

Yes.

 

The answer speaks for itself.

[lollipopspot]

Yes.

 

The answer speaks for itself.

 

Same here.

 

My answer speaks for itself.

[cessna]

No but I've avoided approaching women who I deem too attractive for me. I've also suffered from 'performance issues' when with a new girl for the first time. After a few times with the same girl I'm comfortable and it's all good from there.

 

My answer doesn't speak for itself.

[LuckyLady13]

Turn down an attractive partner for sex because of nerves? Heck no! It's a bit like skydiving. Lots of adrenaline, white knuckle the ride and just go for it!

[pewpew]

Nope can't say I have.

 

I kinda figure if they want to have sex with me then they obviously like me what's to be nervous about

[jay1983]

I've turned down attractive partner for sex cause I knew they've been around the block a few times.

Edited June 25, 2015 by a LoveShack.org Moderator

[Satu]

Turn down an attractive partner for sex because of nerves? Heck no! It's a bit like skydiving. Lots of adrenaline, white knuckle the ride and just go for it!

 

Is that a high altitude jump with a low opening, or a low altitude jump where you're on the ground in 90 seconds?

[jay1983]

I've turned down some attractive ones for the same reason.

 

it was a typo I meant to say attractive.

Edited June 25, 2015 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
Moderation fixed it up.

[loveweary11]

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[Keenly]

When I was 17, I had moved out with a few friends to escape an ******* stepfather.

 

We threw a lot of parties, pretty much every weekend. One of my room mates friends brought his ex girlfriend (who brings their ex to a party?)

 

Some how her and I were talking and I learned she like System Of A Down.

 

Well I busted out the guitar and she was pretty much sold at that point.

 

She spent the night, climbed right into my bed in her underwear, and...................................................

 

 

 

I never touched her. I don't even think I kissed her. It was just too unnatural of a situation for me, and that's when I learned that the clothes don't come off until I am comfortable, because it just gets weird after that.

 

 

Then there was a time when I had managed to talk myself into sex I didn't want from a woman I wasn't attracted to. Why I did that, I'll have no idea. Needless to say, a guy can't perform with a woman he has zero attraction for.

[mystikmind2005]

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Hahahaha, very good! made my day

[misspond]

Yes I have, only nervous of it though because at the moment I'm feeling lonely and would like a partner, not a ONS.

[fitnessfan365]

Good topic!

 

I've never avoided sex with someone I was attracted to. But I always seem to get nervous the first few times with each new women I sleep with. This is actually one reason why I like to delay sex and have a ton of foreplay and tension built up. I find this cuts down on it considerably.

[h0000]

No never turned someone down because they are attractive.

I am never nervous about sex

[PogoStick]

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Cannot divide by zero!

 

 

If a girl is hot AND I can have sex with her...

 

There will be baby-makin that night.