Author Benco Posted July 1, 2015 Author Posted July 1, 2015 Hopefully, several weeks after hell freezes over,.... Meaning? Sorry I'm so dense.
TaraMaiden2 Posted July 1, 2015 Posted July 1, 2015 Meaning I personally hope she never gets in touch with you, which will give you the opportunity to take full advantage of No Contact, move on, live your life and enjoy your freedom from a woman to whom you really don't mean all that much at all. Go find someone who will reciprocate your feelings, not drop them on the ground and mash them to a pulp with her heel.
Author Benco Posted July 1, 2015 Author Posted July 1, 2015 Meaning I personally hope she never gets in touch with you, which will give you the opportunity to take full advantage of No Contact, move on, live your life and enjoy your freedom from a woman to whom you really don't mean all that much at all. Go find someone who will reciprocate your feelings, not drop them on the ground and mash them to a pulp with her heel. Fair enough. Rationally I know you're right. I did much better yesterday than today. Hopefully after a month I'll have some time behind me and so will she.
TaraMaiden2 Posted July 1, 2015 Posted July 1, 2015 Fair enough. Rationally I know you're right. I did much better yesterday than today. Hopefully after a month I'll have some time behind me and so will she. No, not in a month, not in a year.... you never look that far ahead to consider it would be an ok time to break No Contact. You go into this for the duration. For good. Forget 'a month's time'. Leave it totally alone, totally permanently. Totally.
Author Benco Posted July 1, 2015 Author Posted July 1, 2015 No, not in a month, not in a year.... you never look that far ahead to consider it would be an ok time to break No Contact. You go into this for the duration. For good. Forget 'a month's time'. Leave it totally alone, totally permanently. Totally. Why? Because her actions are so abrupt and hard to follow, this the only option? I feel like if we were talking I wouldn't be updating my own thread. Which is super frustrating. Thanks for trying to really spell this out for me.
Author Benco Posted July 2, 2015 Author Posted July 2, 2015 I haven't texted her since Monday night. I have to wait for her to text me, right? She leaves for vacation with her parents on the 11th / knows I wanted to see her on Saturday for 4th of July. If I don't hear from her before she leaves is it time to write her off for good?
Grumpybutfun Posted July 2, 2015 Posted July 2, 2015 Go NC. Move on. Someone is waiting for you that will want you wholeheartedly. You are wasting your time and resources in the past. Good luck, Grumps
Author Benco Posted July 3, 2015 Author Posted July 3, 2015 Go NC. Move on. Someone is waiting for you that will want you wholeheartedly. You are wasting your time and resources in the past. Good luck, Grumps Text from her a moment ago (almost midnight) Hi. My mom and I went to Krispy Kreme Tuesday morning. I was excited. I hope everything is going well. I still don't know if I want a relationship but I do know I miss talking to you. There have been a lot of random things I've wanted to share over the past few days. Now what?
Thistooshallpass21 Posted July 3, 2015 Posted July 3, 2015 For all of us here who wish to be in the position you are in with our break ups do not respond! You can't let her have you as a doormat! There's always a slim chance a very slim chance if you go NC you'll find out what she's really thinking it's either she'll come running back or she'll move on and so will you and you will find someone who will want to be with you!
Author Benco Posted July 3, 2015 Author Posted July 3, 2015 For all of us here who wish to be in the position you are in with our break ups do not respond! You can't let her have you as a doormat! There's always a slim chance a very slim chance if you go NC you'll find out what she's really thinking it's either she'll come running back or she'll move on and so will you and you will find someone who will want to be with you! Why would you want to be where I am in the break up?
m.snow Posted July 4, 2015 Posted July 4, 2015 break up? did you already do it? do it meaning have sex? go get another movie ,some dinner then get some drink and f her. don't get to emotionally attached yet. see if your compatible in bed first!
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