TheGreenCat Posted June 24, 2015 Posted June 24, 2015 (edited) So there is this girl i like, and we know each other for a long time. Last year i told her that i like her, and she told me that i should not like her because it was a waste of my time, and as a reply i told her all the things i like on her, her voice, hair, personality, she knows exactly what she wants and etc... But she also told me that she was certain that she would never like me, i asked how would she know, and she just did not say why. And we were always playing around with each other, she had a cute name for me that she was the only one that called me that name, and whenever i ask something she would answer and then ask me the same question. After i told that i like her she just called my real name. There were always small walls between us, whenever i come closer to her she would move away. This was before i told that i like her. Well a year has passed and i still like her, but this time she is different but i cannot understand why... She began again with the cute name for same weeks and now she calls me with my real name, but for her girlfriends she uses the cute one!?!? When we go home just the two of us, she always talks about herself, and what happened to her and her girlfriends, the real difference is that she NEVER before talked about herself ou about her girlfriends!?!? when i ask something she just answers, not asking me the same as she did before. We play around as before, this time she does not move away even if i speak at her ear! But still, i have the sense that she does not want to be alone with me... What is going on? Is this time different? We were several months without seeing each other. Edited June 24, 2015 by TheGreenCat
Author TheGreenCat Posted June 24, 2015 Author Posted June 24, 2015 Ok, but still why is she this different and not the same as before when i told her that i like her?
doeblin Posted June 24, 2015 Posted June 24, 2015 So there is this girl i like, and we know each other for a long time. Last year i told her that i like her, and she told me that i should not like her because it was a waste of my time, and as a reply i told her all the things i like on her, her voice, hair, personality, she knows exactly what she wants and etc This rarely have the desired effect. Show, don't tell. If you like a girl, ask her out for a date. If she likes you, she won't be evasive. Stop ruminating. Plenty of girls. "she told me that i should not like her because it was a waste of my time" " But still, i have the sense that she does not want to be alone with me..." Probably because you are friendzoned, but you do not realize it. She might be toying with you. How old are you two?
pewpew Posted June 24, 2015 Posted June 24, 2015 If she has come out and actually said nothing is going to happen then I'm afraid that's probably true. You have to ask yourself If a girl liked you (even a little) why would she say don't like me because nothing will happen? The cute name thing and talking about herself probably shows she does like you but it sounds like you have been placed in the friend zone. It's up to you whether you are okay with just being friends with the way you feel about her. But if your thinking I'll just wait and see over time she might change the way she feels about me I'd say you are probably going to be wasting your time because she has made it sound pretty clear that nothing will happen on that level.
Author TheGreenCat Posted June 25, 2015 Author Posted June 25, 2015 I'm sure that she certain that i dont like her, but the strange thing is we have been friends for more then 10 years (i'm 21, she is 20) and she never told me things about her, but now she does tell me! Because i don't think that she likes me, i'm just saying something is different... Because i've always been in the friend zone! And yes it is probably a waste of my time!
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