Jersey1985 Posted June 23, 2015 Posted June 23, 2015 A girl I was seeing sent me this msg and I'm just wondering what i should do? We were dating before then she broke up with me. Then wanted to get back together so figured id giver her another chance as i really like her.. I msg her the other day saying id be willing to take things slow. But she never msg me back after i replied to that msg below. Do I just wait for her to come to me now? Thanks I know you're confident that you're an amazing guy and I understand you'll do anything for those you care about! I know both of us have a lot to offer and what not I'm just not sure where I stand at this moment... I thought I was ready for a relationship before but I just don't know if I am.. I'm not a date multiple guys kinda chick so it's not like that... I'm just not sure... I'm jaded and have a lot of issues where I've been told one thing and then been shown another.. I know that's not all guys and I can't hold onto it forever but I just can't forget it and it scares me off at times. I like you always have but I'm gun shy and not willing to rush anything or be more than I can so i guess that's where it lies I'm just thinking at this point. I dunno what to say.. I do like you we had fun but we didn't really have a relationship to break up from and I don't wanna rush into anything and I just don't wanna make it seem like more than it is. I liked hanging with you.. Would like to know you better.. Slowly I guess I dunno. I need to think more..
smackie9 Posted June 23, 2015 Posted June 23, 2015 Wow what a long winded message just to say "Sorry I'm just not that into you, and I only see you as a good friend".
Ruru Posted June 23, 2015 Posted June 23, 2015 Or she had a bad experience in the past with guys and doesn't want to rush things to get taken advantaged/getting hurt. Probably give her some space and some time to think, "I liked hanging with you and would like to know you better" sounds like she does want to take the time to get you know you on a deeper level first. Though after 2 weeks not hearing from her at all then I'd say it's safe to say it's done deal.
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