Andyt Posted June 23, 2015 Posted June 23, 2015 Im one of the most popular people everywhere I go. Im nice, I'm funny. I met a girl recently, we gone well, she stayed at mine. The next day we chatted fot a bit and things when quiet. We finally had a date yesterday. It went brilliantly. Non stop chatting to each other, we had literally everything in common. She gave me a kiss and text me when she got home. But now shes disappeared again. I have absolutely no luck with women. Literally none. Im 27 and Ive had 3 girlfriends. Im a peoples person, people seem to really like me. But know woman wants me as a boyfriend. And this rejection feels like the final straw. I simply cannot handle it
Jemay Posted June 23, 2015 Posted June 23, 2015 And this rejection feels like the final straw. I simply cannot handle it Ugh I get it, rejection hurts, but you just gotta get a thicker skin. You sound confident, and of course you can handle it. You've got to handle it cause what else are you gonna do, hide under a rock? It's life. Accept that it's not all about cheers and pats on the back, you'll get rejected many more times, and you'll be loved many times. So take a deep breath, stay positive, and move on to next girl
Seeker12 Posted June 23, 2015 Posted June 23, 2015 ...you'll get rejected many more times, and you'll be loved many times. So take a deep breath, stay positive, and move on to next girl Andyt, its this, ultimately i think its the fact that youve been in only 3 relationships, instead of 10-20. Hey man, im not a person to go out with many girls either, nor do i pick up and drop significant others every other month. What Jemay has said is pretty much how it works, therell be a helluva lotta nos, and then therell definitely be some yeses. Its life, its not you clearly youve got social characteristics which girls will like, just chug along not all girls are attracted to the same type of guys and vice versa, attraction works in a weird way, let someone walk in and see if they want to stay! Just dont waste your time waiting for someone to stay!
mightycpa Posted June 24, 2015 Posted June 24, 2015 Im 27 and Ive had 3 girlfriends.Define "girlfriend" and how long did those relationships last? That sounds like plenty. I was just starting with my 4th "official" girlfriend at that age, but I always dated a lot, and never felt like I was missing out. I could have had more, I guess, but I rather enjoyed being single, because I got all the benefits and none of the commitment. How many girls do you see at one time? I recommend three, keep looking for the next one, and rotate the "worst" one out. It keeps you on your toes and you learn a lot about women, and the quality of the women you see will increase. Don't go for the girlfriend thing too quickly. Keep it light, I'd suggest no girlfriend talk for at least 6 months. What you described shouldn't bug you, and trust me, it won't if you keep lots of women in the pipeline.
Sameold Posted June 24, 2015 Posted June 24, 2015 Dating lots of women isn't for everyone though. Most importantly don't be too available and make an interesting life for yourself away from females you hope to smash.
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