fred123 Posted June 23, 2015 Posted June 23, 2015 The truth is very simple. Women are very different to a guy they are attracted to. We hear on LS about how guys are making mistakes all the time but the truth is the girls are just not interested in the guy. Example: Girl meets a boy. Boy likes her and asks her out. She brings friend and explains its first time we meet so i bring a friend. Boy writes his problem on LS and girls and guys both say its normal etc etc. Boy questions whether she is into him or not. Now same girl a month later meets a boy she really likes and doesnt bring a friend and kisses and sleeps with the boy first time. Now my question is why should the first boy accept being that guy! No guy wants to be him and he is wasting his time. Everyone on LS got it wrong. She just wasnt into the guy and its 99 per cent the case
d0nnivain Posted June 23, 2015 Posted June 23, 2015 You are right that women act differently around men they like vs ones they aren't interested in. I don't recall anyone telling you that it was normal or OK for a woman over 20 to bring a friend on a 1st date. It's awkward at best You don't have to accept being the guy that was not chosen but you do need to recognize lack of interest earlier. 3
Redhead14 Posted June 23, 2015 Posted June 23, 2015 You are right that women act differently around men they like vs ones they aren't interested in. I don't recall anyone telling you that it was normal or OK for a woman over 20 to bring a friend on a 1st date. It's awkward at best You don't have to accept being the guy that was not chosen but you do need to recognize lack of interest earlier. I vaguely recall this thread as well, and I told you that bringing a friend is at best immature. So, not everyone told you it's normal. However, quite a few of your posts are frought with bitterness, disappointment, anger and disrespectful comments towards women. I kinda get that you are struggling, but this kind of attitude comes across in ways you may not even realize and maybe this girl felt it was in her best interest not to go alone to meet you. Just a heads up. Bad attitude = bad vibe. She may have at least given you the benefit of her doubt. Be relaxed and open-minded at least. Dating is a process and it takes time to "figure" things out. Be patient and don't get upset every time a girl turns you down. It's just the way dating goes. There will be a lot more turn downs before you get to the one who really likes you for you and you will know it when it happens 4
autumnnight Posted June 23, 2015 Posted June 23, 2015 I'm always amused when a man thinks he has the universal truth about women... 16
elaine567 Posted June 23, 2015 Posted June 23, 2015 The truth is very simple. Women are very different to a guy they are attracted to. We hear on LS about how guys are making mistakes all the time but the truth is the girls are just not interested in the guy. Example: Girl meets a boy. Boy likes her and asks her out. She brings friend and explains its first time we meet so i bring a friend. Boy writes his problem on LS and girls and guys both say its normal etc etc. Boy questions whether she is into him or not. Now same girl a month later meets a boy she really likes and doesnt bring a friend and kisses and sleeps with the boy first time. Now my question is why should the first boy accept being that guy! No guy wants to be him and he is wasting his time. Everyone on LS got it wrong. She just wasnt into the guy and its 99 per cent the case Girls may not want to go out on their own with guys that they do not know. Was she aware that it was an actual date and not just hanging out as friends? OR She may not have liked the guy, but she knew her friend was interested in him, so she brought her along. She may have liked him but something he said or did turned her off him. Her friend may have just been feeling a bit lonely... In fact no-one can second guess what was on her mind. NO-ONE can make generalisations about women, A+B does not equal C, women are individuals, they do not conform to formulas, nor to "truths" - to think that they do is naive. 1
ExpatInItaly Posted June 23, 2015 Posted June 23, 2015 The truth is very simple. Women are very different to a guy they are attracted to. We hear on LS about how guys are making mistakes all the time but the truth is the girls are just not interested in the guy. Example: Girl meets a boy. Boy likes her and asks her out. She brings friend and explains its first time we meet so i bring a friend. Boy writes his problem on LS and girls and guys both say its normal etc etc. Boy questions whether she is into him or not. Now same girl a month later meets a boy she really likes and doesnt bring a friend and kisses and sleeps with the boy first time. Now my question is why should the first boy accept being that guy! No guy wants to be him and he is wasting his time. Everyone on LS got it wrong. She just wasnt into the guy and its 99 per cent the case Who said it was normal? Do you have a link to this thread? It's not normal. It's awkward. How old is the girl in question? And of course women act differently when they're interested in the guy. Men do that too. That's what differentiates a romantic connection from a friendly one. This is basic human behaviour. Did you not already realize this? It's not some eureka discovery.
PrettyEmily77 Posted June 23, 2015 Posted June 23, 2015 For a second there I thought OP was actually going to reveal the truth about women...
jen1447 Posted June 23, 2015 Posted June 23, 2015 It was a subtle ploy to draw us in so we can learn the real truth about women, which we're all waiting to hear ....
toscaroscura Posted June 23, 2015 Posted June 23, 2015 For a second there I thought OP was actually going to reveal the truth about women... Don't worry. I contacted the Secret Cabal and our secrets are safe. I'll see you next week at the meeting. Remember, you're bringing the cookies! ....nothing to see here, folks, move it along. 2
Lurkeraspect Posted June 23, 2015 Posted June 23, 2015 The truth about Women!! according to Fred123 Fixed that for you.
Maleficent Posted June 23, 2015 Posted June 23, 2015 Sorry Toscaroscura. I think it's time our secret got out. Wait for it folks, the truth about women. I'm sure you've all heard about it before but I'm here to confirm it's true Women fart. 1
jen1447 Posted June 23, 2015 Posted June 23, 2015 You can't say that about all women! Oh wait yes you can. 1
autumnnight Posted June 23, 2015 Posted June 23, 2015 Sorry Toscaroscura. I think it's time our secret got out. Wait for it folks, the truth about women. I'm sure you've all heard about it before but I'm here to confirm it's true Women fart. LIES! LIES and BLASPHEMY....oops, scuse me.... 1
toscaroscura Posted June 23, 2015 Posted June 23, 2015 You two must be stopped! Farting is item #4 on the Manifesto of Female Secrets! NO ONE MUST KNOW. I have dispatched Femme Squad Re-Education Troops to your place of residence. Don't worry, they will be quick and painless, and when they are finished, the world will once again believe that a woman has no anus. *pets one of many, many cats in my evil woman lair* Mwahaha. MWA! MWAHAHAHAHAAAAAA! 1
autumnnight Posted June 23, 2015 Posted June 23, 2015 You two must be stopped! Farting is item #4 on the Manifesto of Female Secrets! NO ONE MUST KNOW. I have dispatched Femme Squad Re-Education Troops to your place of residence. Don't worry, they will be quick and painless, and when they are finished, the world will once again believe that a woman has no anus. *pets one of many, many cats in my evil woman lair* Mwahaha. MWA! MWAHAHAHAHAAAAAA! Stop talking about Uranus....hahahahahahahahahaha Sorry, didn't mean to make you the butt of a joke 1
StanMusial Posted June 23, 2015 Posted June 23, 2015 Now my question is why should the first boy accept being that guy! No guy wants to be him and he is wasting his time. Everyone on LS got it wrong. She just wasnt into the guy and its 99 per cent the case You don't have to accept it. There is no reason you should. Just find someone else.
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