Bobbi7 Posted June 23, 2015 Posted June 23, 2015 I noticed that when ever there's an attractive man near by, women just flock to them. Like I saw on facebook, this cute young intern guy posts a picture of himself and he gets 30 likes and comments from girls. One girl posted a comment, "marry me" then his married woman posts a comment, "look at that smile." I'm like really? Even married women have to steal all the good men from us single ladies and now we have to work hard to get what we want? My god. So basically it's all a competition, because in the end all the good men will be taken?
d0nnivain Posted June 23, 2015 Posted June 23, 2015 FB is meaningless. Harmless flirting is generally meaningless. As for attractive men, my experience has been that once the gorgeous guys get done with the easy fall into their lap girls who throw themselves at the guy, if you simply stand back & let him come to you it works so much better.
Gaeta Posted June 23, 2015 Posted June 23, 2015 They're married - not dead. A married woman can appreciate and give compliments to a good looking man without wanting to sleep with him. You don't know who these women are they could be family related to him or co-workers just teasing. 2
Gaeta Posted June 23, 2015 Posted June 23, 2015 Even married women have to steal all the good men from us single ladies and now we have to work hard to get what we want? My god. So basically it's all a competition, because in the end all the good men will be taken? If the man is not interested in you than move forward. You should not have to steel him away from anyone. It's not a competition. Find a man that thinks you're hottest thing around and don't pay attention to the rest of them. If you need to work hard than it's not meant to be, you're wasting your time on the wrong man. 1
losangelena Posted June 23, 2015 Posted June 23, 2015 They're married - not dead. A married woman can appreciate and give compliments to a good looking man without wanting to sleep with him. You don't know who these women are they could be family related to him or co-workers just teasing. +10 points for "not dead." Lol 1
Woggle Posted June 23, 2015 Posted June 23, 2015 Why shouldn't they? Men sure have to work hard to get attractive women. Anything good usually takes effort. 1
Krieger Posted June 23, 2015 Posted June 23, 2015 Why shouldn't they? Men sure have to work hard to get attractive women. Anything good usually takes effort. I don't have to work that hard for a woman to hit on me . It just most of them I do not find attractive. If I wanted a girl that could be a model if she wanted to be I know I have to work my butt off to get her to go out with me.
empresario Posted June 23, 2015 Posted June 23, 2015 Yes you have to work hard to get one of the top 10% of any person. It's what you value, sister. Same with men to women. I'm not the most attractive guy. I'm attractive enough. However, my confidence and success push me over the edge where, whether egotistical or not, I know every girl I go on a date with will want a second, third, etc. date. It will be me ending it; it won't be her. But I still have to get to that first date. It's tricky regardless of looks, status, personality, etc. You want what you have to offer back. Intelligence. Charisma. Compatibility. Chemistry. And there's not only one person that can offer those things. So yes, you have to work hard. And if the personality, looks, and most importantly timing is right then it will happen. If not you remain confident and try again. That's what I've had to do most of my life...and still do. Even as a desirable man, you have to convince a desirable woman of your qualities and the timing has to be right in order to get that first date. Because I'm not the only successful man, and I'm not even close to the only guy that can make a woman happy. I'm not even the special snowflake my mom told me I am as a generation Y yuppie. We are all people competing for resources. And though all people are created equal and have equal opportunity (debatable, I know...but since I'm from extreme poverty I will argue we all do), we do not all remain equal...and the top of the food chain contains hotter commodities. Change what you value or change your standards...or come 'gloved-up' ready to compete. 1
Timshel Posted June 23, 2015 Posted June 23, 2015 I noticed that when ever there's an attractive man near by, women just flock to them. Like I saw on facebook, this cute young intern guy posts a picture of himself and he gets 30 likes and comments from girls. One girl posted a comment, "marry me" then his married woman posts a comment, "look at that smile." I'm like really? Even married women have to steal all the good men from us single ladies and now we have to work hard to get what we want? My god. So basically it's all a competition, because in the end all the good men will be taken? I don't see how being good looking automatically = being a good man? He could be a complete a**hole and/or idiot.
loveweary11 Posted June 23, 2015 Posted June 23, 2015 Truer words have never been spoken! I'm exactly like Empresario in these respects. Anyone who wants the best must think this way in business, in society and even in love. To attract the best, you must *be* the best. Yes you have to work hard to get one of the top 10% of any person. It's what you value, sister. Same with men to women. I'm not the most attractive guy. I'm attractive enough. However, my confidence and success push me over the edge where, whether egotistical or not, I know every girl I go on a date with will want a second, third, etc. date. It will be me ending it; it won't be her. But I still have to get to that first date. It's tricky regardless of looks, status, personality, etc. You want what you have to offer back. Intelligence. Charisma. Compatibility. Chemistry. And there's not only one person that can offer those things. So yes, you have to work hard. And if the personality, looks, and most importantly timing is right then it will happen. If not you remain confident and try again. That's what I've had to do most of my life...and still do. Even as a desirable man, you have to convince a desirable woman of your qualities and the timing has to be right in order to get that first date. Because I'm not the only successful man, and I'm not even close to the only guy that can make a woman happy. I'm not even the special snowflake my mom told me I am as a generation Y yuppie. We are all people competing for resources. And though all people are created equal and have equal opportunity (debatable, I know...but since I'm from extreme poverty I will argue we all do), we do not all remain equal...and the top of the food chain contains hotter commodities. Change what you value or change your standards...or come 'gloved-up' ready to compete. 1
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