rov Posted June 23, 2015 Posted June 23, 2015 Hi, I met this girl through Facebook 3 months ago, we started talking a lot daily. We both are from Mexico and she was doing her medical internship in Europe when we met through Facebook. A month later she returned from Europe and we met in person 3 times, she broke up from a 3 year relationship 6 months ago because her boyfriend went to another state to make his medical service and he dumped her, she was very emotionally abusive with her, she is surprised that I treat her so well. We have very good chemistry and great spark. So well, we have dated 3 times already kissed many times and held hands, we text daily and talk on the phone many times a week, this starts to feel like a relationship but the thing is that she will go to Europe or New York to make her masters degree in one year and a half, I don't know what to do, if cut the looses right now or just see where things go. I don't want to get hurt. Any tips?. Im 28 years old and she is 24.
La.Primavera Posted June 23, 2015 Posted June 23, 2015 No one wants to get hurt but if you avoid a relationship for that reason then you will never experience love either. If she isn't leaving for a year and a half that will be enough time for you both to figure out if your relationship has a long term future or not. For now I think you should just go with the flow and enjoy it.
mangetout Posted June 23, 2015 Posted June 23, 2015 I would see where it leads. If it's meant to be then the two of you will work something out once she starts her masters degree
d0nnivain Posted June 23, 2015 Posted June 23, 2015 Dumping her now because you are afraid of what might happen 1.5 years from now is cowardly plan. Life has a funny way of changing when you least expect it. Deal with her schooling when the reality of it arrives, not based on what you think might happen. 18 months is a long time. See where this goes.
Lois_Griffin Posted June 23, 2015 Posted June 23, 2015 It sounds negative, but the chances you'll still be dating even a year from now are pretty low. So I really don't think 1.5 years from now will probably be an issue for you. I'd just see where this goes and let it follow it's natural course.
Popsicle Posted June 23, 2015 Posted June 23, 2015 There is a VERY high risk in getting hurt in extended LDR's, especially if one or both people are reasonably attractive and normal.
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