SrJuanox Posted June 23, 2015 Posted June 23, 2015 Hello guys, I dont know if anyone remembers my case, but here's the deal. I met a girl by Tinder, she's absolutely amazing and we share a lot of likes (music, art, science, etc). We had our first date and it was good, and by good i mean no awkwardness or something like that, everything went ok. We cant really see each other during school because we have to study a lot and dont really have time to go out, so I can't really got to see her a lot. After our first date, and struggling by the fact that i couldnt really see her a lot, I think i ****ed up things by telling that i liked her via text (yeah, I know :rolleyes: ) Anyway, her response was kinda weird. She didnt say "no, I want you to ONLY be my friend", but she didnt say either something like "yes, I like you too". Her response was like, "Oh, I think you are an amazing guy with a lot of cute things, but sadly we havent spend a lot of time together to become a girlfriend-boyfriend thing" so yeah.. Last weekend i saw her and by the end of the date I told her that I was really sorry for saying that before, and that she didnt like me I was ok with that. She didnt say that she doesn't like me, she said like.. Oh, we've only seen twice, we should let things "flow"... I dont know how to react to this, I mean, do I step back? Should I become more distant with her? I dont really want to look clingy or needy, So what should I do? Greetings from Colombia! And yes, this is a "highscool love story", excuse me if I'm being immature or something..
TheBathWater Posted June 23, 2015 Posted June 23, 2015 Hello guys, I dont know if anyone remembers my case, but here's the deal. I met a girl by Tinder, she's absolutely amazing and we share a lot of likes (music, art, science, etc). We had our first date and it was good, and by good i mean no awkwardness or something like that, everything went ok. We cant really see each other during school because we have to study a lot and dont really have time to go out, so I can't really got to see her a lot. After our first date, and struggling by the fact that i couldnt really see her a lot, I think i ****ed up things by telling that i liked her via text (yeah, I know :rolleyes: ) Anyway, her response was kinda weird. She didnt say "no, I want you to ONLY be my friend", but she didnt say either something like "yes, I like you too". Her response was like, "Oh, I think you are an amazing guy with a lot of cute things, but sadly we havent spend a lot of time together to become a girlfriend-boyfriend thing" so yeah.. Last weekend i saw her and by the end of the date I told her that I was really sorry for saying that before, and that she didnt like me I was ok with that. She didnt say that she doesn't like me, she said like.. Oh, we've only seen twice, we should let things "flow"... I dont know how to react to this, I mean, do I step back? Should I become more distant with her? I dont really want to look clingy or needy, So what should I do? Greetings from Colombia! And yes, this is a "highscool love story", excuse me if I'm being immature or something.. Give her some space, and when you are in contact with her, keep it cool. She doesn't sound ready for anything intense right now.
CarrieT Posted June 23, 2015 Posted June 23, 2015 Two dates - seriously dude? You don't know if you "like her" that way and she can't know if she likes you either. This will not end well; you played your cards way too early.... 1
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