JS17 Posted April 29, 2005 Posted April 29, 2005 I need some advice. I met a guy at a friend's party a few weeks ago. We had both drank a lot and ended up having sex. I realized at some point that it was a mistake and he stopped knowing I wasn't into it. He's not my normal type and we don't have a tremendous amount in common on the surface but there is potential that we could be good for each other. I have seen him once since and nothing physical happened at my request. We've been talking a lot but most of our conversations turn sexual. I don't think either of us are looking for anything serious right now, we're both dating around, but I don't want to be used for sex. He says he wants to just have fun and get to know me but will neither confirm nor deny that he want's a purely sexual relationship. How can I tell if all he's interested in is sex?
UCFKevin Posted April 29, 2005 Posted April 29, 2005 I'm gonna let you in on a little secret. When a guy says he just wants to have fun, that means he just wants to bang you. Tattoo this into your hand if you must, to remember it.
LucreziaBorgia Posted April 29, 2005 Posted April 29, 2005 Originally posted by JS17 How can I tell if all he's interested in is sex? If he expresses no interest in anything but getting to know you in that context, and only sees you when its convenient for him and he's in the mood.
Author JS17 Posted April 29, 2005 Author Posted April 29, 2005 so basically what you're all saying is that, yeah, he's only interested in sex. thanks for the advice! it is greatly appreciated
Marshbear Posted April 29, 2005 Posted April 29, 2005 Originally posted by UCFKevin I'm gonna let you in on a little secret. When a guy says he just wants to have fun, that means he just wants to bang you. Tattoo this into your hand if you must, to remember it. So true. Fun to a guy means sex.
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