susiev Posted June 22, 2015 Posted June 22, 2015 maybe someone can give me advice. my bf broke it off in march. together 2 yrs. 7 months of which he was "away". we had an intense relationship. mainly I did everything for him. he hid his past from me for the first year. when he got out in November. I picked him up. thought it would go back to the way it was before. it didnt. lots of him asking for a break. then getting back two days later. he has issues with baby mama drama. and has issues in his head from his "past" things he did as a 19 yr old that weren't pretty. so he's got lot of things going on in his brain. we were back & forth from dec to march2015). and he ended it march 20. so here's the deal. he keeps saying he doesn't think he can be what I need. and I'm too good for him. and It's not me it's him. which lets face it are all lines people use to get rid of someone nicely. there's maybe a 1% chance they actually mean it. I found out he moved in with some chick 6/1. says they were on,y talking since may. which I highly doubt. here's the kicker. he asked me back in march to move in with him. saying I'm the only woman he ever truly loved. said let's get a place June 1. then 2 weeks later he ended it saying not that he didn't want to just he said it in haste. nice. so one week after break up I ended up at his place for sex, cause I was being pathetic. then it went right back to break up status. for April we texted randomly. I'd be asking y he'd just say its better this way. end of April I went to his place to drop something that he asked for. he asked me to come bring it. of course we ended up in bed. then next day friend zone.half of may we saw each other couple times(lunch) or me giving him money. lol. and he would flat out turn me down for sex. saying he doesn't want to confuse things. so I'm sure he was with her apparently. anyway. no communication for last 10 days. til yesterday. wasn't great convo. he said move on, then he said I've moved on, I said well thanks u promised me we'd sit down sometime & give me my answers. so he said Thursday I will sit down & we will talk. so I know I'll get a lot of bull**** stories. there's lot more to the story he is almost 99% likely bipolar. my therapist says he has the symptoms. so why do y'all think he left me. he says she wasn't in picture til after we broke up. hahahaha. I'm attractive smart funny. we had great sex. his sister told me she's average looking. so is it possible he just fell out of love with me, or he never did love me, or he's just mentally unstable, or he met her & just was more into her than me, or he's just being typical douchbag guy or could he really think I'm too good and knows he will hurt me so he let me go. (girl he moved in with lived in little apt across the way from his with her parents). she's 30. kind of a trashy area of apartments. help me people!
coryreply Posted June 22, 2015 Posted June 22, 2015 Why are you trying to save this relationship? It doesn't sound like he treated you very well.
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