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A while back I was heartbroken over my ex. It took me several months to get over it and I did :D Two months ago I reconnected with this girl I met several years ago. At that time she was in a commited relationship. When we reconnected she was on and off with her bf. Eventually they brokeup. In the mean time we got closer and closer to the point where we can read each other's emotion only with a look. We finish each other's sentences and we have so much fun together.

 

After the breakup, we kissed on several ocasions and it was amazing. I can feel that she likes me a lot and I also like her a lot. One problem though. Her ex is not taking it well. He keeps messaging her telling her he loves her and that now he wants to start a family with her. I told her I will not give an opinion on this since it s not my place to give one. She told me she feels sad because of the situation with her ex and she wants to be fair but she doesn t know what fair means in this scenario.

 

The thing is we re also very good friends. I told her that she has no control over my emotions and regardless of what happens or not between us I will be the same person with the same feelings and her friend.

 

I really want something with this girl. I just don t know how to proceed or even if I should proceed at all. So if you have any thoughts on this please share. :)

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Well best option is to give her space let her sort herself out with her ex.

 

If she then comes back to you, you can move on from there.

 

I also find it hard and I highly recommend that if she doesn't come back to you that you should cease your friendship. You can't be friends with someone you like, never works and someone will get hurt.

 

Good Luck

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