max3732 Posted June 21, 2015 Posted June 21, 2015 I met this girl while on vacation with my parents and she was with her parents. We really hit it off and talked for hours and during that time our parents were talking too. Turns out she lives within 2 hours of where I have a vacation home and spend a few months there during the year. When I was over there I went to see her and took her out for pretty much the whole day. Pretty much since then we've been emailing/texting every few weeks to a month. In the next few months I should be going over there again and I'm planning on driving over there to see her. We've also planned another joint trip with us and our parents. She's wonderful, but I have several problems trying to figure out how to move this forward. 1. Obviously the distance and not getting to see each other in person more than a few times a year 2. I'm scared to death to try to kiss her or do anything too romantic since she tells her parents everything (who then tell my parents) and I don't want to ruin what we have already or make things awkward for our parents. So my big question is how awkward would it be for us/our parents if I go in to kiss her and she pulls away and tells me she doesn't like me like that or something. I've spent so much time and effort with her I don't want to ruin what we have, but I'd also like to move things forward.
Trufita Posted June 24, 2015 Posted June 24, 2015 Life is about taking risks. It would be awkward for you if she pulls away, but it would be great if she doesnt. About your parents, well, I dont think they would care that much, at least I wouldnt. However if I were you I wouldnt try to kiss her, instead I would tell her I have feelings for her. I think that makes everything easier and a possible rejection wouldnt be so embarrassing. If she likes you back, great, if not it doesnt matter, there are more girls out there.
justwhoiam Posted June 24, 2015 Posted June 24, 2015 1. Obviously the distance and not getting to see each other in person more than a few times a year I get that. Because it'd be awkward if you treat it like a Summer fling, as your parents and her parents are now friends and the two families will likely meet up again on more occasions. Therefore: don't rush into things, unless she does. 2. I'm scared to death to try to kiss her or do anything too romantic since she tells her parents everything If you drive, you're at least 16, right? But how old is she? Hopefully she's over 15. She might tell her mom, but I doubt she's going to tell *everything*. how awkward would it be for us/our parents if I go in to kiss her and she pulls away and tells me she doesn't like me like that max, you first invite her out for a date. You make it clear it's just the two of you, like Friday night or Saturday night. You can tell you have friends there, but you'd prefer to just spend some time with her instead. If you go that far and she says yes, she's agreeing to going out with you, hence she must like you *that way*. That doesn't mean she'll be in for anything else other than talking to you and spending time with you, but in my book it'd mean she likes you not just as a friend. Also, look her straight in the eyes, smile, be a gentleman. Maybe don't make a move on the first date yet. But when it's time for her to go back home and say bye bye, kiss her goodbye. She might want to kiss you on the mouth. At that point you go in for the kiss.
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