LifeandPerseverance Posted June 21, 2015 Posted June 21, 2015 (edited) There isn't really a sub section for "friend who you're always curious about" on the forum, so I guess I'll put it here. I have a male friend who I've known for 1.5 years. I'm friends with his whole family, including his older brother. Last July the flirting started. But I was moving across the country, so even though we still texted and sent pictures daily, nothing could come of it. Over the fall, this culminated into sexting several times, and risqué...things:confused:. He almost had to pick me up from the airport in December and he was scheming "well I would want a kiss, and we could at least cuddle for awhile, etc". I've always felt like something would happen if we were left alone, but usually when I'm with him in person it's in a group or with the whole family, so I've never had a chance to test that theory. I got really pissed at him in January, and cut contact (I was home for the holidays, and I felt like he should have made an effort to hang out with me). He has since apologized and we're on good terms. He does still send me weekly post workout half naked pics, compliment my appearance and we banter and text. I also have since moved back to where we're from. And with summer gearing up, there's starting to finally become opportunities to see him and the family (they have a cabin here) every weekend. Earlier this week, he and I had some banter accusing him of not being interested in women (he couldn't be more heterosexual if he tried). He models and I was poking fun at him. Last night I was over at their cabin, and the boys and I were watching a movie. While we were sitting there, I had texted him, "GAY." (we'd just been arguing about the discussion earlier in the week) and he wrote back "we'll see about that" followed by a kiss face and a sneaky face . I was falling asleep so I got up to go a little while later. I thanked them for inviting me, and he started to get up, "I'll walk you out." Then as we're going downstairs...His brother jumped up, "I'll come too!!!!":mad: Needless to say..Instead of one man walking me to my car, I instead got two, standing at the door, with the older brother attempting to do most of the talking (he's the more extroverted one). As I drove him..I wondered..Does it sound like he was going to try to kiss me at the car? And then his brother tagging along ruined it? The night ended with the text, "Goodnight pretty girl :)". Edited June 21, 2015 by LifeandPerseverance
jen1447 Posted June 21, 2015 Posted June 21, 2015 Not much of a stretch to think he was gonna try something. Who knows, maybe more than just a kiss.
Author LifeandPerseverance Posted June 21, 2015 Author Posted June 21, 2015 (edited) Is the older brother single? The older brother IS [recently] single. Why? I should mention the older brother also suddenly compliments me on my appearance these days (this a new thing), and last night as I was walking out of the kitchen was like touching my shoulder, etc. Edited June 21, 2015 by LifeandPerseverance
Author LifeandPerseverance Posted June 21, 2015 Author Posted June 21, 2015 Not much of a stretch to think he was gonna try something. Who knows, maybe more than just a kiss. So this isn't my imagination getting the best of me? The way the cabin is set up, the driveway is dark, and if he'd gone out there with me, there's no way his brother would have seen anything.
jen1447 Posted June 21, 2015 Posted June 21, 2015 No, I don't think it's your imagination. He seems way into you.
elaine567 Posted June 21, 2015 Posted June 21, 2015 The older brother IS [recently] single. Why? I should mention the older brother also suddenly compliments me on my appearance these days (this a new thing), and last night as I was walking out of the kitchen was like touching my shoulder, etc. I did wonder why he scuppered his brother's chance with you, now we know why. 1
jen1447 Posted June 21, 2015 Posted June 21, 2015 Oh my god that didn't even occur to me but yeah ....total cock block.
Author LifeandPerseverance Posted June 21, 2015 Author Posted June 21, 2015 (edited) That does make sense. Now that I think about it, last night I got a comment from the older brother on, "You're built like a swimmer. Do you swim?" (in reality, I use to swim, but Im a runner too, and THAT is something I do daily.) and then a little while later, "Your hair is SO LONG. I didn't realize your hair was so long! Why do you always have it pulled back when I see you?!" Both these comments he made..In front of their parents They boys are about as different as possible, in terms of both personality and looks. They're also close in age, so they (typically good naturedly) make fun of each other frequently. The younger brother is 24 (my age), and the older brother is 27. Edited June 21, 2015 by LifeandPerseverance 1
Author LifeandPerseverance Posted June 22, 2015 Author Posted June 22, 2015 You know, he and I are close enough and flirty enough I could probably just text him and ask him if that was his plan. I don't know why I didn't think of that:sick:
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