sportygirl0226 Posted June 21, 2015 Posted June 21, 2015 Never thought I'd be writing this. I'm married of 11 years. Fell in love with my same sex best friend a little over a year ago. We have slept together. She is married as well. When things started with us, her marriage wasn't too great and mine was ok. Now, her husband has been trying very hard and they are doing very well. We've had some issues in our messed up side relationship. I lied to her a few times (never about being unfaithful), about stupid things. Obviously, she ended things with me. I was devastated. I've never felt like this about anyone. I know it's wrong on so many levels. We have hooked up from time to time since then. Each time she says it was a mistake afterwards, and that crushes me. I would leave everything behind for her. We are best friends, so no contact isn't really possible. She's trying with her husband to work things out. They are affectionate and it's hard to watch. Yet I should be supportive. I'm so lost and stuck. I'm madly in love with her. Being with her feels so right. This whole thing is messed up. I feel like sometimes there are mixed signals. Lingering looks, touches. Yet...she says it's done. Help!
jen1447 Posted June 21, 2015 Posted June 21, 2015 Wow, that's a tough one hon. You have two marriages and a relationship in need of reconciliation to deal with. Have to ask, if you know - how do both of your husbands feel about open relationships and female bisexuality?
ravfour4 Posted June 21, 2015 Posted June 21, 2015 Sounds like she intelligently went back to work on things with her husband rather than having an affair with her best friend. Maybe you should try to do the same with your marriage?
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