makeupjunkie Posted June 21, 2015 Posted June 21, 2015 Hi guys my guy broke it off may 29...said he felt pressured by me to move his daughter out of the house..also that this was not a healthy loving relationship. I had lost my job and looking back i did not take care of the relationship like i could have. I regret it because he is a great man. I know he loves me. I did the typical pleading don't do this etc followed by a phn call to him which he didnt answer. Texted me later that he needed to get thru this and its best we not communicate for now. So i respected his wishes...that was may 29. It is getting a bit easier as time passes but I do think of him everyday. I have read so many stories of terrible breakups etc and i get hopeful and think we still might have a chance but then doubt sets in. Trying to use this time to work on myself. I read almost everywhere that you should do NC minimum of 30 days then reach out. I would be scared to reach out for fear of being rejected yet again. So I am leaving it up to him to reach out. I dont think I could go thru this pain again. It has been three weeks of NC and i dont know how i made it this far but i have. I even have dreams about him. Trying not to focus so much on him but its hard at times.
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