sirtyner Posted June 21, 2015 Posted June 21, 2015 So I met this girl at work. At first I didn't notice her but then when I did I started to talk to her. After doing that for a few days one of my friends told me that she liked me. So as time went on I ended up liking her too and I ask her out on a date. When we went on the date I made my first move and pulled her in for a kiss. After that she grabbed my hang and held my hand the rest of the date. She insisted the kisses from there and was all over me. The date happened exactly a week ago. So the week following the date she was acting strange. When I asked her what was wrong she told me that I was overwhelming her so I backed off. A couple days ago she was acting really mean and acting different again, this time she claimed it was her period. We always tease each other and I said a couple things that she took to the heart and was mad about it. Later that night we were at a party and I brought her flowers to make her day/make her feel special. I found out later on that night that she didn't like me anymore. I was drunk at the time and I screamed at her saying "I'm tired of you're ****ing games" and she left the party after I said that. I spent yesterday apologizing for that and whatnot and she finally forgave me and said she'd give me another chance. However, she texts me later that night accusing me of talking bad about her at work. I explained to her I wasn't an again I sent a long apology. I've gotten no response from it. It's really irritating that this whole situation happened, the thing this girl I had did a complete 180 in a matter of days, and that some person has started a rumor that's not even true. She claimed she's mean and acting different because of her period a couple days ago but who knows. Anyways, is all hope lost on this girl? I really do like her. If hope is not lost how can I honestly make this one up to her?
d0nnivain Posted June 21, 2015 Posted June 21, 2015 I wouldn't hold out too much hope because she appears immature & not to know her own mind. After one date, this is far too much drama. I get that you had been drinking & were frustrated but the fact that you screamed at her in public didn't help your case. When the flowers did not work, I would have concluded she was simply not interested & moved on. You were a good guy who tried but the drinking yelling incident may be a deal breaker.
pidgeon1010 Posted June 21, 2015 Posted June 21, 2015 Some girls (and guys) revel in drama and she sounds like one of such girls. At this extremely early stage of casual dating, this is too much drama. I wouldn't stick around for all that shenanigans.
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