pjm123 Posted June 21, 2015 Posted June 21, 2015 Ask a girl while i am out to be my wing girl? And this girl said i wasnt as aggressive as other guys and i told her i dont wanna look like that and be getting never laid i want lot of sex she said you dont want women like that. So how do i ask to be winggirl?
Zing Posted June 21, 2015 Posted June 21, 2015 Why would you want that? She's already shown that she doesn't support what you want, success with women. Women generally make terrible wingmen anyway. edit: also "be more aggressive" is just woman-talk for showing confidence.
fitnessfan365 Posted June 21, 2015 Posted June 21, 2015 You're too focused on getting laid. Women can smell desperation a mile away. Is being sexually assertive a factor? Yes. But guys who are actually good with women seduce them with conversation, humor, and being really witty/charming/confident. I mean it's not like a woman is going to spread her legs the second you say hello to her. So if you can't engage a woman's mind without talking/thinking about sex the whole time, you won't get anywhere. Plus, having a "wingwoman" is not a good way to go IMO. Needing a woman's help communicates you don't know what the f**k you're doing and that you have no confidence. 1
ascendotum Posted June 21, 2015 Posted June 21, 2015 You're too focused on getting laid. Women can smell desperation a mile away. Plus, having a "wingwoman" is not a good way to go IMO. Needing a woman's help communicates you don't know what the f**k you're doing and that you have no confidence. I agree on the desperate bit. Chances are a female friend wont help out a guy meet women if he is out to Pn'D them. If if he said he was looking to meet girls or find a gf then she might have been more helpful for him. I find that women don't mind a good looking player talking about picking up women for fun, but when it comes to regular nice/sweet guy talking about wanting that they tend to not like it, hence the 'you're a sweet guy and you don't want women like that'. There was a great post here a few weeks back on the motivation to the phrase 'just be yourself' when women say that which relates to this. For a guy that does alright with women, a wing woman will be redundant, but for a guy that struggles not because he is a dickhead but because he lacks the confidence then for many I reckon they could help. As you say it shows no confidence, but if the guy is low on it then I'm sure his female friend will realize that anyway. She is not going to date him so he has nothing to lose by asking her. If she is outgoing she'll be the ice breaker for him and having the wingwoman by his side will add security and pre-selection for any women they meet, and its better than being solo. When it has come to wingmen I have found its best to have someone similar to you on desirability -Too good looking or too unattractive has it negatives. Given this girls polite knockback I think he should forget her.
d0nnivain Posted June 21, 2015 Posted June 21, 2015 Plus, having a "wingwoman" is not a good way to go IMO. Needing a woman's help communicates you don't know what the f**k you're doing and that you have no confidence. Depends on the woman. I have been wingwoman for a few guys. I'm pretty good at it but I don't generally talk to the women 1st. I just answer Qs usually starting with "are you together?" However, a woman will generally only help a guy looking for a relationship. Women don't get involved when the guy only wants to get laid & doesn't care one wit about the women he's trying to pick up. pjm123 that is why this woman won't help you. She's not going to get you laid or help you score with sluts. She might help you find a GF. Get some higher minded priorities & your luck should change.
toscaroscura Posted June 21, 2015 Posted June 21, 2015 Don't worry, you aren't a "sweet guy" at all, and according to your other thread you already HAVE a GF, who you are planning to manipulate with a new, "better" girl. 2
Author pjm123 Posted June 21, 2015 Author Posted June 21, 2015 I do want a winggirl seriously how do u have a girl be one for you??
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