Tiffanimonroe85 Posted June 21, 2015 Posted June 21, 2015 I just found out I'm pregnant , my boyfriend just recently stopped talking to me because I told a friend about some of the things him and his friends indulge in , basically my friend is interested in his brother and I gave her a heads up on what to expect , I thought we were having a casual "girls talk" but she basically ratted me out and now my boyfriend hates me and doesn't want his baby or me anymore I'm really depressed and sad what to do ?
d0nnivain Posted June 21, 2015 Posted June 21, 2015 You apologize to your baby's father. You try to explain that you needed to vent & you thought what you said to her was in confidence. You also realize that you need to keep your relationship discussions to yourself. promise him you will never talk about your relationship with others. It really is a crappy thing to do, never share intimate details. Then you stop speaking to this fake friend & concentrate on doing what is best for your baby. 4
HansonGirl Posted June 21, 2015 Posted June 21, 2015 You apologize to your baby's father. You try to explain that you needed to vent & you thought what you said to her was in confidence. You also realize that you need to keep your relationship discussions to yourself. promise him you will never talk about your relationship with others. It really is a crappy thing to do, never share intimate details. Then you stop speaking to this fake friend & concentrate on doing what is best for your baby. I agree with this wholeheartedly. i've made the mistake of talking about my relationships with others too. it NEVER is a good thing to do. even if i'm lucky and the person keeps it in confidence, i still feel really ashamed afterwards. 1
Lois_Griffin Posted June 21, 2015 Posted June 21, 2015 I just found out I'm pregnant , my boyfriend just recently stopped talking to me because I told a friend about some of the things him and his friends indulge in , basically my friend is interested in his brother and I gave her a heads up on what to expect , I thought we were having a casual "girls talk" but she basically ratted me out and now my boyfriend hates me and doesn't want his baby or me anymore I'm really depressed and sad what to do ? Good lord. If your boyfriend is THAT childish, then just wait until he hears you're pregnant. It doesn't sound like you chose well from the gene pool. Sorry. 3
kendahke Posted June 21, 2015 Posted June 21, 2015 Does he know you're pregnant? From the timeline you've got in your post, it sounds like you broke up before he found out. I'm confused as to what you thought she was going to do with the information you gave her. You didn't think that she would ask him about these things you said he indulges in? She may not have mentioned your name at all, but he was able to extrapolate that it could have only come from you. Never say anything to anyone you don't want coming back to you and taking a 2x4 to your head. What to do? Either prepare for being a single mother or look into terminating the pregnancy.
cessna Posted June 21, 2015 Posted June 21, 2015 Is your boyfriend 14? He is acting like a spoilt little brat. Wanting to have nothing to do with his child or his child's mother because of, essentially, a bit of gossip... You sure this guy will be a decent father? 1
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