guys/men what would you do if you really love a woman/girl?

[loveflower]

There are a couple of men I suspect like me...but they have really never taken any approach or say anything directly.

 

Is it save to say maybe it's just my imagination and interpret too much?

 

Because i was told if a man like you he will make sure you know?

[preraph]

I'm not a man, but they will come right after you usually. And if they don't, do you really want someone who's that constipated about the whole thing? Too much trouble. Also, be mindful those who you think might "really like you" might just be really attracted to you sexually but figure you're not "that kind of girl" so they're not bothering. This is often the case with guys who keep staring but never do anything. I actually heard one say under his breath one time, "it's not worth it" because he just was wanting sex but knew the chick would be wanting more.

[Torii]

I'm not a man, but I have some insight to this.

 

 

IMHO, he'll do whatever he can to please you - emotionally, in a supportive way he knows how. When you really have a connect with somebody, especially a man, they should be able to make you feel safe all the time. There should be no doubt in your mind about being used, abused, etc if what you have with this man is genuine. Safety, should be a concern for him and you. Affection, should be a concern for him and you; always show that you love each other in unexpected ways that really express your gratitude.

 

IMHO, when you meet somebody you can really connect with, you'll spend every single day you can trying to express the feelings that come with "I love you" and finally understand the meaning behind these overly used words. You'll notice, when you experience real love, that these overly used words are just the beginning of a long battle to trying to really define your love for this person.

[loveflower]

I'm not a man, but they will come right after you usually. And if they don't, do you really want someone who's that constipated about the whole thing? Too much trouble. Also, be mindful those who you think might "really like you" might just be really attracted to you sexually but figure you're not "that kind of girl" so they're not bothering. This is often the case with guys who keep staring but never do anything. I actually heard one say under his breath one time, "it's not worth it" because he just was wanting sex but knew the chick would be wanting more.

 

Thanks for the input. That helps clear my mind somehow. that may helps explain some.

 

However, it seems more complicated than that. Almost always the ones that come right after me are not the ones I want at all. some even repulsive to me.

 

there is this one that is 'constipated', but I like very much...but also I don't have the confident in myself.

 

Actually, my biggest issues are that I am clueless. I don't show interest. but if they really like me they will come after me anyhow, right?

[loveflower]

I'm not a man, but I have some insight to this.

 

 

IMHO, he'll do whatever he can to please you - emotionally, in a supportive way he knows how. When you really have a connect with somebody, especially a man, they should be able to make you feel safe all the time. There should be no doubt in your mind about being used, abused, etc if what you have with this man is genuine. Safety, should be a concern for him and you. Affection, should be a concern for him and you; always show that you love each other in unexpected ways that really express your gratitude.

 

IMHO, when you meet somebody you can really connect with, you'll spend every single day you can trying to express the feelings that come with "I love you" and finally understand the meaning behind these overly used words. You'll notice, when you experience real love, that these overly used words are just the beginning of a long battle to trying to really define your love for this person.

 

In an ideal world. If he or she also know that other person likes him/her back.