LoveOverAll Posted June 20, 2015 Posted June 20, 2015 Every time me and my guy friend talk on the phone he ask me if I'm in love with him? He told me that he loves me very much, has a deep connection/chemistry with me and that he talks to me about things he doesn't even talk about with his own family. I told him idk, but I think I am and I think he knows it. I'm just afraid of how he will take it if I tell him that I am in love with him. I'm just wondering why he keeps asking because it's not like he's told me that he's in love with me, so idk if he wants me to say it first or what. I was telling him that I care about him very much and only want the best for him, that's when he asked me. This is NOT the first time he's asked me this. Also I think when we were hanging up he said "I love you", but I'm not sure because I was already pulling the phone away from my ear to hangup, now I'm nervous that he will think, I was rude or I don't love him too. Please help me out here, Why does he keep asking? Btw he's in his 30's so I don't know if that's how they talk, idk.
Author LoveOverAll Posted June 20, 2015 Author Posted June 20, 2015 Why is no one responding to my question? I came here for answers
elaine567 Posted June 20, 2015 Posted June 20, 2015 A bit clingy and needy maybe? How old are you? What is the story here, how long have you known each other? You say "He told me that he loves me very much, has a deep connection/chemistry with me and that he talks to me about things he doesn't even talk about with his own family. ", but you then say "it's not like he's told me that he's in love with me" so which one is it? Or do you mean he says he loves you, but not that he is in love with you.
Author LoveOverAll Posted June 21, 2015 Author Posted June 21, 2015 A bit clingy and needy maybe? How old are you? What is the story here, how long have you known each other? You say "He told me that he loves me very much, has a deep connection/chemistry with me and that he talks to me about things he doesn't even talk about with his own family. ", but you then say "it's not like he's told me that he's in love with me" so which one is it? Or do you mean he says he loves you, but not that he is in love with you. I'm 24 and he says that he loves me very much and then he'll ask if I'm in love with him? We've known each other 1 year now
katiegrl Posted June 21, 2015 Posted June 21, 2015 I'm 24 and he says that he loves me very much and then he'll ask if I'm in love with him? We've known each other 1 year now Sweetie, not to sound snippy, but what exactly is the issue here? You said you think you love him ...and he knows it, but you are scared to tell him cause you don't know how he will react...because you don't know if he feels the same? You just said above he says he loves you very much....in your original post you said he is always saying he loves you....and asks you if you love him. Common sense would dictate the reason he always asks you is....wait for it.....because he wants to know if you love him!!! No offense....but duh. Right? :) So just tell him you love him and put an end to this nonsense. Or is there something else you are not telling us? Cause frankly this seems like a no brainer....he wants to know if you love him...because he loves you, and if you love him too...then bingo!!!! 1
Redhead14 Posted June 22, 2015 Posted June 22, 2015 Every time me and my guy friend talk on the phone he ask me if I'm in love with him? He told me that he loves me very much, has a deep connection/chemistry with me and that he talks to me about things he doesn't even talk about with his own family. I told him idk, but I think I am and I think he knows it. I'm just afraid of how he will take it if I tell him that I am in love with him. I'm just wondering why he keeps asking because it's not like he's told me that he's in love with me, so idk if he wants me to say it first or what. I was telling him that I care about him very much and only want the best for him, that's when he asked me. This is NOT the first time he's asked me this. Also I think when we were hanging up he said "I love you", but I'm not sure because I was already pulling the phone away from my ear to hangup, now I'm nervous that he will think, I was rude or I don't love him too. Please help me out here, Why does he keep asking? Btw he's in his 30's so I don't know if that's how they talk, idk. Talk to HIM. How old are you? You've know him for a year? Have you been dating and been intimate? You two are not communicating effectively, that's for sure. At least YOU aren't.
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